"Looking for Someone" (article about online dating

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Logan5
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28 Jun 2011, 10:45 am

Since the topic of online dating often comes up on this board, the following article may be of some interest:
"Looking for Someone: Sex, love, and loneliness on the Internet."
by Nick Paumgarten
July 4, 2011
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2011 ... paumgarten
(The writer interviews some of the people behind the websites OKCupid.com, eHarmony.com, Match.com and Chemistry.com.)

An older article:
"How Do I Love Thee?"
By Lori Gottlieb
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arc ... thee/4602/
(Article focuses on Chemistry.com, eHarmony.com, and PerfectMatch.com.)

A quick caveat. I recommend you take the "science", discussed in those articles, with a big grain of salt.

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Edit. "Matchmaker, Matchmaker ... Run Your Algorithm"
NPR: Fresh Air [audio]
http://www.npr.org/2011/06/29/137456270 ... -algorithm



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06 Aug 2011, 7:29 pm

Another article about online dating, focusing on match.com.

Inside Match.com: It's all about the algorithm.
By David Gelles
http://www.slate.com/id/2300430/

I thought the following bit was particularly interesting:

Quote:
Academics call this "dissonance". "It's a theme that runs through social psychological literature," says Andrew Fiore, a visiting assistant professor at Michigan State University, who works on computer-mediated communication. "We don't know ourselves very well on a descriptive level."

The same is true for the millions of Match users, says Ginsberg, and she tried to incorporate dissonance into the algorithm. "I might come in and say I'm looking for a nice Catholic guy between 30 and 40 who is non-married," she says. "But after weeks of looking at people, I might get an e-mail from a guy who has kids, and I might accept that. It's all about behaviour modelling. All that data goes into algorithms and affects who we put in front of you."
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It is a subtle shift, but one with profound implications. "Before, matches were based on the criteria you set. You meet her criteria, and she meets yours, so you're a good match," Thombre explained. "But when we researched the data the whole idea of dissonance came into focus. People were doing something very different from the things they said they wanted on their profile."



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06 Aug 2011, 7:43 pm

I'm sorry but I really did have to post this when I saw the thread title.

From Get Carter:

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05 Jan 2012, 8:57 pm

Match replaced yahoo personals a year and half ago. I know someone who got married to who he met on match. It is a common site people have met on and got married. They should replace AC date for the special needs like if any of you have no luck like at Special Olympics.