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littlelily613
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30 Jun 2011, 3:50 pm

...who thinks that everyone hates me? Do you feel like everyone hates you to, or do you really not care or don't know how others feel? I guess I don't really *know* how others feel, but I still think they all hate me. I am pretty annoying.


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30 Jun 2011, 3:54 pm

yes I feel that way all of the time-its not a good feeling-especially when you catch a person you thought liked you lying to you and not thinking twice about it.


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30 Jun 2011, 4:32 pm

I just feel that people laugh at me.


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30 Jun 2011, 4:55 pm

Generally speaking, I don't think people particularly hate me, but I don't think they particularly like me, either. I'm just kind of "there."



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30 Jun 2011, 5:13 pm

I do. There is this girl at school, whom I feel everyone loves and treats really well. However, I feel all these people hate me. It seems as people who get along with the girl, don't get along with me and visa versa.



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30 Jun 2011, 5:15 pm

littlelily613 wrote:
...who thinks that everyone hates me? Do you feel like everyone hates you to, or do you really not care or don't know how others feel? I guess I don't really *know* how others feel, but I still think they all hate me. I am pretty annoying.


I used to feel that way a lot of the time because many people's reactions made no sense to me otherwise.

I try not to think that way anymore, to some degree of success.



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30 Jun 2011, 5:31 pm

I feel the same, never learned how to handle it. Got used to the feeling, but wish I would learn how to deal with it.

Vervandi, how did you manage to handle it?



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30 Jun 2011, 5:38 pm

I like to think that people have no particular feelings about me, either positive or negative, and I am shocked when they demonstrate that they do. Why? It's not like I have strong feelings sbout them....



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30 Jun 2011, 6:30 pm

Definately. In part, I wonder if it's because I have strong opinions, rather than going with the flow (which I also do - I'm not always opinionated!). People don't like being challenged. They also don't like anyone who is different, and I'm certainly that.

It's weird, really. My mum, dad, BF and a few friends think I'm great, but my sister, her husband and recently some of my friends, think I'm the most evil and manipulative person since Satan! Which I'm not, they just put really weird interpretations on things I've done.

I find people utterly confusing :? .


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30 Jun 2011, 9:20 pm

I often feel like people are mad/annoyed with me for reasons that I don't see/understand. It makes things difficult at times but I try to ignore the feeling. I have learned that people either (a) get over it (b) tell you what you are doing to upset them or (c) aren't upset with you at all were really having problems with something else instead.



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30 Jun 2011, 9:25 pm

I always feel that people secretly hate me and are saying bad things about me behind my back; I do feel quite paranoid and that I cannot trust people. I think it has more to do with our experiences with people back in grade school than anything else.



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30 Jun 2011, 9:26 pm

I thought everyone hated me when I was a teen but in relativity I hated everyone else


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