In my opinion, honesty is the best policy. Be honest to your self and to others, to the best of your ability. If one decides to hide who they are, in all probability it will be be self defeating. The only time I would choose to be dishonest is if the issue was of vital importance. Some may argue that employment is vital, I agree. Though one should also consider the circumstances. I have been unemployed for an extended period yet I am still breathing, thinking, and have not starved. I am thankful for those around us who do show compassion. An official diagnosis has not yet been applied to me, though I contend that I am afflicted with most of its traits. This creates a dilemma for me because even though I believe I have met the criterion for A.S., if I tell a potential "employer" about it, they can discriminate and I have no means to prove discrimination because I have not been "officialy" diagnosed. I still choose to list it as a disabling mechanism because I see it like this - If I am capable of performing the stated functions of the "job" and yet am discriminated against for past history even though I have attempted to inform the deciding party of why I have not been able to maintain long term employment in certain circumstances, it is likely that this particular organization has been conditioned to believe certain supposed "truths" which may or may not be rational. I tend to have difficulty when someone attempts to command something that does not make any sense what so ever. It perplexes me that someone can come to a decision without attempting to understand reason. I suppose much discrimination comes with the idea that humans tend to fear that and those which they do not understand. There have been jobs that I have been able to maintain over the long term. These were all jobs with minimal contact. Driver, security guard, etc.. As of today, mostly focused sensory type job functions. I tend not to perform well with crowds, to many variables perhaps.
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Any thing that can happen, will happen, has already happened, and is happening right now.