Where do i find female aspies online who want a relationship

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Hi ive tryed several aspie dating sites and they all seem abandoned aspieaffection most of the women on there have ben inactive for months and i tryed a cuple others that were prety much the same where have all the available aspie females gone? are they all in hiding?

Hmm I'd suggest just getting to know the people on this site fairly well as friends more and see if theirs any compatibility between you and any of the women here? Just posting and keeping active on the forums should at least initiate a good amount of social contact. Who knows!

There are no women on the internet

orly?

Dude - look around.

Are you going to France now instead of America, meat girl?

Check this thread - Link

ok i will clarify my question: Are there any aspie dating websites that arent mostly dead? if so what are they? i have seen that thread and posted on it and even tryed sending several women messages but i havnt received any messages back mabey it was somthing i said i dunno but i figure a website with a personality compatability program would give me beter luck and i doubt eharmony has an aspie section. ive heard alot of aspies have truble socialy but im probably one of the most socialy chalenged among us so i opolagise if i ask stupid questions but im gonna ask them anyway....

We are all online we aren't hiding I'm alittle shy and abit apprehensive of having a relationship due to a man not understanding me and my obssesive Interests and Hobbies and I get really uncomfortable when someone enters my personal space or touch me the last boyfriend I had just went to hug me without telling me first and I hit him in the face and knocked him to the ground. It takes along time for me to get used to a boyfriend little lone feel comfortable, relaxed and trust him. Im too demanding and hard to figure out that is why I havent had a boyfriend in 8 years. I dont know what expression or emotion to express and I have no idea how to express the meaning of love I find the feeling I get when in a relationship to overwhelming which I cant handle and it causes me to have a meltdown which in the end causes the breakup. If there is a man out there that is willing to put in the hard yards and doesnt mind a few bruises and sit and listen to me chat for hours without getting bored and falling asleep and willing to be patient, understanding, more supportive a guide to helping me understand things. I can be demanding I can be hard to work out your more than welcome to talk to me must not be some weirdo, strange men Ive to many of those to weird for me they freak me out.

They tend to be invisible.

Well I certainly wasn't, but most of them are.

I think if women with AS do congregate in a group, it's going to be some type of cat rescue group. I've yet to meet a woman with AS who does not have some degree of interest in cats.

I like cats too and im male AS, alot beter then dogs. but how do u find somthing thats invisible do i have to walk around with a cat on top of my head?

Why don't you get involved with a cat rescue group?

is there such a thing online? i already rescue animals but its usualy dogs but i did rescue 1 cat she was a stray but now i gotta live with her and shes a tirant. i got 2 cats 2 dogs and several chickens

There are probably cat rescues in your area offline that you can volunteer at. They frequently need people to sit at adoption tables and help care for the animals their kennals and such.

IT'S A TRAP!

but i cant aproach women offline or anyone for that mater thats why i try to look online cuz it gives me somthing to hide behind plus every time ive tryed offline has ben a total disaster i need to get to know a woman behind my barrier before i meet her offline so i can tell if it will work before i even meet her face to face i realise its hard to realy know somone online but its alot safer then jumping into a relationship with a completly unstable person and only realising it after its too late. ive ben scarred enough.