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kittie
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05 Aug 2011, 1:45 pm

My only emotions these days seem to be 'lonely' or 'busy'. At the moment I am lonely. I'm sick of having nobody I truly connect with and these 2D emotions. :(

I keep wondering if it's worth ending my life over, but I know it's not, and when I am dead I will be dead eternally and remember none of this, so it's not really an issue when I am dead, I can wait some more decades until I die naturally.

I just want hugs please?



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05 Aug 2011, 1:46 pm

Big fat sweaty bloke incoming with really tight hugs!

Sorry you feel that way, kittie. It's a very common emotion, and it affects me too. :(



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05 Aug 2011, 1:47 pm

kittie wrote:
My only emotions these days seem to be 'lonely' or 'busy'. At the moment I am lonely. I'm sick of having nobody I truly connect with and these 2D emotions. :(

I keep wondering if it's worth ending my life over, but I know it's not, and when I am dead I will be dead eternally and remember none of this, so it's not really an issue when I am dead, I can wait a some more decades until I die naturally.

I just want hugs please?


You can have a hug from me any time. :)



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05 Aug 2011, 1:56 pm

*creepy middle-aged Aspie hug*



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05 Aug 2011, 1:56 pm

Here's a hug for you kittie! :heart:

I understand you are suffering but it's not permanent. You have your whole life ahead of you.

Feel better soon!



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05 Aug 2011, 1:57 pm

No problem, that's what we're all here for.
OK, now brace yourself.
Ready?
HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG!
There. Now do you feel a bit better? I hope so.

Suggestion. I tend to avoid most social interactions and I too feel the lack of them at times, but then I remember the problems they cause. So ... One of my solutions to this problem is amateur radio. There I have contact with others, but it's in an environment that is much easier to deal with and less threatening. Just a thought.


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05 Aug 2011, 1:57 pm

Grisha wrote:
*creepy middle-aged Aspie hug*


haha :)



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05 Aug 2011, 1:57 pm

Big hugs from me. Take care.



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05 Aug 2011, 2:14 pm

*hugsback to everyone who wants it*

Thankyou so so much, you have no idea how much I appreciate this. ^-^



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05 Aug 2011, 2:36 pm

Hugs from Finland to the OP and all the others.


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05 Aug 2011, 2:40 pm

Hugs from an anxious brazilian aspie!



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05 Aug 2011, 2:47 pm

Hugs from a loony American.



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05 Aug 2011, 2:48 pm

Having 2D emotions is a good thing. 3D emotions give me a headache.


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05 Aug 2011, 2:49 pm

OddFinn wrote:
Hugs from Finland to the OP


Hope you've got yer coat on for the OP! :D



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05 Aug 2011, 10:43 pm

*Awkward aspie hug*
@kittie


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06 Aug 2011, 9:17 am

*huuuuuuuuugs*


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