anyone feel like they can't make friends with religiousgirls

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i feel like i can never make friends with religious(chrisitan) girls because they all end up not wanting to have anything to do with me btw they better be lucky i'm not suicidal otherwise they would just have a huge burden to carry

If you are not as religious as they are, then they will not bother with you.

That is one of the most asinine statements that a person can make, because while they might feel a little guilt, they are just as likely to brush it off as "God's Will". Besides, you'd be dead, which would be even more unlucky for you!

sorry it's just that i'm so upset about how they treat me that i ended up saying that

Just don't become friends with religious girls.

I have a certain disdain for religious girls, mainly because they are so pathetic with their general passiveness that I want to puke. That type of damsel in distress like attitude is only going to attract very un-Christian guys, and then they get all jaded and expect sympathy. It wouldn't bother me so much if they didn't act like 13 year old brats all the time, or if they didn't tell me to curb my language because they are in the area and they happen to be offended by what I'm saying. I'm sorry, was I talking to you? Are you a part of this conversation? Don't come from across the room and tell me to watch what I'm saying. How about you watch where you step, huh? It's the super-sensitive religious ones that I can't stand, thankfully most religious people aren't like that.

I second the previous respondents. It sounds like you're better off making friends with non-religious girls, with religious girls being a true cultural divide for you.

What about religious girls of other faiths?

Just out of curiosity.

I have a muslim friend who is very nice. No explicitly Christian friends, but I don't really rule anything out. You need to get to know someone before you can determine whether or not you can be someone's friend. I don't know any Christian people like the one you describe.

I have yet to meet religious people of other faiths that have to remind everyone how religious they are. It's not that Christianity is better or worse, it's that society treats Christians differently, so they can get away with acting like that. People that flaunt their values or beliefs are all the same to me, so Christians aren't unique. It's about the stupidity of the value system (how superstitious is it?) combined with the mainstream acceptance and attitudes. So this would include environmentalists, vegetarians, feminists, and political junkies. The scenario about coming from across the room could apply to any of these value systems depending on what I'm talking about. The worst part is that many of these overlap, and some people are all 5!

Depending on how your define all of them, which would explain whether all of them are how you describe them or not.

Christians girl I knew in school were only christians because their parents were christians. They played a part of being a nice girl but were really mean to everyone. I know christian women now who are pretty decent. They don't preach at me and I like that. We don't talk about religion but I know them at work so it wouldn't really be right to talk about religion there. They wear cross necklaces and talk about going to church or special religious events in regular conversation. I'm not friends with any religious people. I should be thankful I don't have any GOD WARRIORS in my life telling me I'm going to HELL.

I myself have found Christian girls to be quite the contrary to how you have just described them as being - most girls at school are quite mean and disrespectful towards me, making fun of how i speak, look, dress, act, and of my social difficulties - it's always been the Christian ones who have been sympathetic, kind and friendly.

Just don't let it influence your entire conception of Christians, as many people would do.

I mainly just mean the members of those groups who treat it like a religion, (i.e. a fixed value system that doesn't change) those people who feel it is their duty to educate the less fortunate. Of course not all environmentalists are like that, in fact most of them aren't. It's just that the militant ones get noticed more because they are talking more. That illusion applies to every group that has ever existed. I bring those groups up because they are increasing in numbers, and because part of the values of those ideologies revolves around "spreading the word" (hmmmmm...sounds oddly familiar)