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14 Sep 2011, 11:29 am

I always feel like when my energy levels go up other peoples energy levels go up. Does anybody else feel this way? It has happened 3 times now and I feel like it is true. I was told this too, which really got me going. I told this person I was feeling better at one point and the person was like I know I could tell and she was on the other side of the room. would really like to knows this so my mind can shut up about what just happened at the plasma place.



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14 Sep 2011, 11:36 am

The concept is called "emotion contagion".



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14 Sep 2011, 11:49 am

I guess I am still crazy



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17 Oct 2011, 5:52 pm

LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
I guess I am still crazy

Maybe you're not.
jackbus01 wrote:
"Emotion contagion"

Yes, it's a clear, nice concept that anybody can understand and accept. Unfortunatelly it fails in situations when the effect you described affects wider area, let's say tens or hundreds of people, men not sharing same place etc.

Somebody could say: you shouldn't read/dream etc so much, so I'm answering in advance: it's just your opinion. I don't believe, I know. It's my guaranteed right.

So LostUndergrad9090, you can easily find if it's just emotion contagion or not, it's just a question of a few simple experiments. If not, you should start looking for ways how to control it and on that way you will also find what is it good for. Anyway, it's all nothing more than my poor opinion ;-)



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18 Oct 2011, 8:31 pm

The only time I ever experienced this was when I went to a Bipolar support group. I was talking with another guy, and it seemed like we just kept pushing each other's energies higher. I wondered if it was a bipolar thing, if we just were more reactive towards each other. :shrug:


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18 Oct 2011, 8:37 pm

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19 Oct 2011, 6:38 am

Dots wrote:
The only time I ever experienced this was when I went to a Bipolar support group. I was talking with another guy, and it seemed like we just kept pushing each other's energies higher. I wondered if it was a bipolar thing, if we just were more reactive towards each other. :shrug:


I was in a bipolar support group for two meetings. I had a similar experience, someone shared a story that affected me greatly and I felt really bad. It was too emotionally intense for me. I especially didn't like the group setting. It wasn't the people themselves, but I just didn't find the whole experience therapeutic and it was too emotionally draining.



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19 Oct 2011, 6:42 am

ljumper wrote:
LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
I guess I am still crazy

Maybe you're not.
jackbus01 wrote:
"Emotion contagion"

Yes, it's a clear, nice concept that anybody can understand and accept. Unfortunatelly it fails in situations when the effect you described affects wider area, let's say tens or hundreds of people, men not sharing same place etc.

Somebody could say: you shouldn't read/dream etc so much, so I'm answering in advance: it's just your opinion. I don't believe, I know. It's my guaranteed right.

So LostUndergrad9090, you can easily find if it's just emotion contagion or not, it's just a question of a few simple experiments. If not, you should start looking for ways how to control it and on that way you will also find what is it good for. Anyway, it's all nothing more than my poor opinion ;-)


I would like to respond to your opinion, but I really don't understand it. What are you trying to say?



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19 Oct 2011, 6:59 am

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19 Oct 2011, 7:08 am

LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
jackbus01 wrote:
ljumper wrote:
LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
I guess I am still crazy

Maybe you're not.
jackbus01 wrote:
"Emotion contagion"

Yes, it's a clear, nice concept that anybody can understand and accept. Unfortunatelly it fails in situations when the effect you described affects wider area, let's say tens or hundreds of people, men not sharing same place etc.

Somebody could say: you shouldn't read/dream etc so much, so I'm answering in advance: it's just your opinion. I don't believe, I know. It's my guaranteed right.

So LostUndergrad9090, you can easily find if it's just emotion contagion or not, it's just a question of a few simple experiments. If not, you should start looking for ways how to control it and on that way you will also find what is it good for. Anyway, it's all nothing more than my poor opinion ;-)


I would like to respond to your opinion, but I really don't understand it. What are you trying to say?


abstraction


Ok, I know what the word means but I don't know how it pertains to the above.



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19 Oct 2011, 3:53 pm

jackbus01 wrote:
LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
jackbus01 wrote:
ljumper wrote:
LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
I guess I am still crazy

Maybe you're not.
jackbus01 wrote:
"Emotion contagion"

Yes, it's a clear, nice concept that anybody can understand and accept. Unfortunatelly it fails in situations when the effect you described affects wider area, let's say tens or hundreds of people, men not sharing same place etc.

Somebody could say: you shouldn't read/dream etc so much, so I'm answering in advance: it's just your opinion. I don't believe, I know. It's my guaranteed right.

So LostUndergrad9090, you can easily find if it's just emotion contagion or not, it's just a question of a few simple experiments. If not, you should start looking for ways how to control it and on that way you will also find what is it good for. Anyway, it's all nothing more than my poor opinion ;-)


I would like to respond to your opinion, but I really don't understand it. What are you trying to say?


abstraction


Ok, I know what the word means but I don't know how it pertains to the above.


I'll try it from the other side (maybe this really IS the wrong planet for me :-|), sorry, my expression is really bad sometimes.

I have no idea how exactly is it working, but I can raise mine or other's energy (together) just by manipulating with something inside. I can lower the energy level as well, which is - for example - useful when I want to help other aspie to stop his "crisis" or do other things, but that's another topic.

LostUndergrad9090, IMHO it's not exhausting once you learn how to manage it.



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19 Oct 2011, 5:10 pm

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LostUndergrad9090 wrote:
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LostUndergrad9090, IMHO it's not exhausting once you learn how to manage it.
I wish I had someone I could feel comfortable doing it with. Its not fun when your with someone who is aware or you think is aware and is not liking it or with someone who is just going to bail on you.

I'm pretty sure the girl who I was being treated by felt it, her mood shifted when mine did. It would be nice to just let free and share excitement with someone but its hard when your living in a cut throat f***ing place.


I think your first task is to find "a stable position" again. Try this: every time you're in a neutral position (I mean the inner state - I'm sure you understand), think of still central core, don't concentrate on it, just paw it to ensure that it IS there, still and sure. Learn to attract that thought every time you need clear lookout. Why to do it: because it makes you less vulnerable to negative development of the situation - you'll get a valuable time to get oriented and set up a defence. It's your starting point and it's much stronger than you could think.

Second: yes yes yes, every of us are constantly looking for that type mutual understanding. You're close to open what I did, which allows you to read and/or write states for others. To share yourself together. Once you'll learn it, please take care when playing with it, you can imagine what it can cause ...



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21 Oct 2011, 8:20 pm

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23 Oct 2011, 4:44 pm

I feel like my energy is effected by anyone I am around all the time.



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debm wrote:
I feel like my energy is effected by anyone I am around all the time.

... which can be caused by misinterpretation of body talks or by energy hypersensitivity. You can identify which is it this way:
once you feel the change, close eyes and carefully study your emotions development. If closing your eyes causes calming down, then it's probably the misinterpretation of body talks and you simultaneously know how to stop it. If affection continues and even develops or changes, it's probably the energy hypersensitivity - learn how to build a shield. The most important is to set the shield up in time - you will need to learn how to use so called event switch. Let me know via PM if you're interested how to do these thing, it's OOT.