ScientistOfSound wrote:
I'm kind of on the fence about furries. I realise that not all furries are fetishists/weirdos (OP is a personal friend of mine, and is far from being a pervert, and is a pretty damn awesome guy) but if the fandom ever wants to get rid of its reputation it's going to need to make some huge changes. For example, bad furries (the ones who are hyper sexual about it) shouldn't be tolerated, and kicked out and treated like the perverts they are. Also, furries should stop treating it like a lifestyle. Wanna know why? because nobody is going to want to associate with someone who answers the phone with woof, wears a collar in public, or growls at people when they piss them off, ok?! The fandom needs to be more like it originally was, just a simple interest in cartoon animals and anthropomorphism. Theres nothing perverted or strange about that! I love talking animals and anthropomorphic characters, they're awesome. I'm a full on fan of FiM, Regular Show, Catdog, Cow & Chicken and other cartoons.
I am against haters, because there are some genuine people in the fandom, however most of the fandom is filled with sickening porn that makes me fear for humanity. The fandom needs improving, and people like OP are trying to make it better, which is a very honourable thing to do (in my opinion at least.)
JUDGE THE PERSON!
NOT THE LABEL!
Just because a furry is into porn doesn't mean they're evil. It's when this takes precedence over everything. I only dislike furries that are furries only for the sexual reasons. Everyone else is fine by me. I've met a lot of people by now and they're actually quite intelligent compared to the average member of the Otaku and Gaming fandoms so, I'm not complaining. sure, they might be pervier and I may disapprove, but who cares. They aren't hurting anyone. I haven't gone rogue, I've just opened up. And also, Uncle Kage once noted that many early furry conventions did cater to fetishists and were advertised in fetish magazines and newsletters. The fetish thing has been around for a long time.
Another thing you mentioned about the fandom is the weird behaviour(CANADA!! !! !!). I have friends who wear collars. However, this is only for identification purposes at conventions and gatherings. It's to either let people know that you are a furry and even better, to let them know your name. Tails and badges can be used for the same purpose. Barking and howling is annoying, yes, but you get used to it. The Furry fandom is a sub-culture, not a lifestyle. I'm kind of iffy about people who think otherwise. I'm always open to make friends and I'm very accepting of all furries. I learned that being overly judgemental gets in the way of effectively making friends and connections in this fandom, so I just keep quiet.