I think I was nearly raped.

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Today, I was going to lunch, and at the end of the hall were these girls, about four or five of them. They said, "I love you, Connor." I went over to investigate. One of them was bouncing off the walls, acting like Spider-Man. When I reached them, the one girl, with massive amounts of red lipstick started walking towards me. She was asking me for sexual favors. I backed off, but she wouldn't stop. She grabbed my stomach, and I butted her away with my lunchbox and ran into the cafeteria. The girls went after me, though the one with the lipstick tailed me to the courtyard adjacent to said cafeteria. For behind, she slid her hand between the crack of my ass, her fingernails digging into the flesh. She was smiling. The girl with red lipstick ran off, along with her friends. I told one of the assistant principals, and with the help of security footage, they got them. Some of them were sophomores. I'm a senior.

It still doesn't wash away the trauma. I feel physically ill. I haven't told my parents about it.

They were being mean. Bullying. Trying to scare you and freak you out. They weren't trying to rape you, they were just trying to upset you as much as possible.

I'm glad you told someone in authority. They need to be punished. Detention or suspension, certainly.

Frances

Regardless of the age of those who did this to you, I can only imagine how traumatic this was for you. I don't know what ages sophomores and seniors are but no means no regardless of gender or age. (Backing away is a fairly clear no in my opinion.)

I hope you can have what you need done for you to feel safe.

And if men did the same thing to a woman, they'd be on the sex offender list.

I didn't have anything crazy like that happen, but when I was in highschool, 1 or 2 girls in health class kept grabbing my butt. People are just like "aww, they liked you" eh, I couldn't see it that way at the time, and still can't now really.

yeah thats BS. f**k them. Any woman who treats a male like s**t isn't a woman to me. By this I mean testing a guy every ten seconds on every subject possible when it is almost nearly impossible to be a stud at every subject.

That's awful. You would be fully justified at carrying some pepper spray and zapping the next person who tries to sexually or otherwise harass you again.

You said the girl who grabbed your butt was "bouncing off the walls", I hope they tested her and searched her stuff for drugs, because it sounds like she was high on stimulants, such as ritalin. In my day kids did plenty of drugs, but rarely came to class high. If she was high she may not have been in complete control of herself. Also, tell your mom. You may need some therapy.

Stuff like that wouldn't bother me, I'd be entertained by the interaction. Assault is subjective I suppose.

Do you trust your parents? If so, you should probably talk to them about it, too.

I'm so sorry to hear that. That was so horrible. I can definitely relate to your bad experience. I was frequently bullied, sexual harassment predominantly from the guys. Considering that one, I could feel that that scenario really affected you significantly. Anyway, those who bullied you were busted, and that, I believe can be the first step to resolve your trauma.

Hope you have a nice day.

This story kind of reminds me of some experiences from highschool. Like there was this ret*d looking kid and a slu*ty girl was pretending to be interested in him, offering to suck his cock and stuff like that. Another thing that happened was there was this kid who was totally "blind" but when he walked past this girl he grabbed her cooch...
Oh yeah and at a hs dance this gay guy came up to me and started dancing provocatively all around me, but it was pretty funny too so oh well.

Eh, girls seem to have so much more freedom in society in a modern age. Tomboy is acceptable, tomgirl is not. Woman can abuse men, men cannot abuse women. I'm so sick of it.

A Latino girl touched my butt once in the eighth grade, but it was not nearly as invasive as what you described, though I still felt like dying for days. I feel sick just from reading this. That girl should suffer.

I really wish I could tell the difference between girls being b*****s and girls genuinely liking a guy, it would help me a lot. I think now there is at least one girl in my grade who geniually likes me in a non-platonic manner.