What kind of woman are we attracted to?

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Just of curiousity if we are attracted to the same thing or different.

I don't want to seem geeky or silly in front of you people but....

My type is

very tall,
glasses,
very skinny,
eyebrows alittle not too much thicken,
either brown or dirty blond,
one's who have a quiet, high pitched cratchy voice. The kind with a tiny spice of western in their voice, the ones that say "Honey or Hon" alot in their speech.
Extremely nice and well mannered.
Fun, Hipper at times, careful, caring, adventurous, very very funny since of humor,
And has a good fair experties or respect in my interest.

Is that called something specifically?

My ideal woman has a face.

I'm not all that picky.

Ideally? Curly hair, green eyes, blonde or brown hair, perfect nose, slender neck, decent chest, skinny but not anorexic, long legs, small feet with purple toenail polish. But this isn't The Sims, so I'll take what I can get.

My ideal woman has the following characteristics.
1. Is human.
2. Has all the parts in place.
3. Doesn't hate Israel.

Do you live in Israel aspie1?

It's cool if you do, I'm just asking hypothetically

A woman to me is like a confurt thing. I've never dated before, so I've got know idea what it's like. I've never got a kiss from a girl before, again don't know how it feels. But I believe it's very POWERFUL! The last crush that I had ended up being a fake. Every emotional thing about her was fake! Even the friendship!

Oh well, God knows when a crush will happen with me again.

_Eric

No, but I'm Jewish. The girl I'm dating doesn't have to be, but the requirement #3 still stands.

Ah cool. Well, my idea girl is the kind with a p****. That's about my only requirement anymore because I'm obviously lucky to get a damn thing without having to pay insane rates.

I'm pretty sure I have an "ideal" but I'm not sure exactly what it is.

There are many things I find attractive, and I would "settle" for someone that is not neccesarily ideal, because quite frankly that person probably doesn't exist.


And if they did they probably would be quite boring due to their lack of flaws.


The main things I pay attention to are physical attractiveness, intelligence, and kindness. Even if she is the most wonderful person in the world, I wouldn't go out with someone ugly. Not that I'm going to go out of my way to hurt them either. I mean what, do I somehow think that I am the only one who has noticed this and that it somehow serves a purpose for me to inform them? Like if I tell them they'll be like 'woah! I am aren't I! Thank you for letting me know. Just a moment, I'll use the magical powers that I must have used to make myself ugly in first place to change my apearance. Because you know, I totally chose this!"

And if for some reason they didn't think they were ugly? It's because they're ignoring all the people yelling at them constantly. Which you know may not be such a bad thing.


I also wouldn't want to go out with someone with a great body, and nothing inside. I probably wouldn't go out of my way to insult them, but if they're too dense to figure it out it wouldn't be as much of a big deal if I did.


Mean people though are open season
"Hi. Want to get a drink?"
"With you? Ah ha ha! Oh man. You're serious? Like I'd ever go out with someone like you!"
"Ah. My bad, I mistook you for someone worth spending time with. Do you know anyone who doesn't have issues?"
"Yeah. Bob over there."
"Well I know Bob, and I think I'd sooner go out with him, and I don't even like guys."
And so on
(What? It's not like I think I can actually win against someone that gets that much practice being an ass! They're like this to everyone, I can't compete if I only target the people that deserve to be put down)

Hmm, Maybe I am being alittle picky.

Is love at first site really exist or do you need relationships to grow first?

I've never dated so I don't know.

She would be intelligent and a good lover. She has to look at least a little pretty, if I'm going to share my life with her. Brunette with a nice arse and (preferably) blue eyes. I don't dare to think I can get a really good looking blond or that a blond (NT) girl wouldn't be mean to me.

A bit of both, I'd say. It's possible to fall in love with someone very quickly, but for a relationship to work you have to really know and trust someone, and this takes time. Even the best of relationships can take some effort

Litigious

Why is it more realistic to think you could get together with a brunette than a blond, especially where you're living? It's not like you're in rural china.

I bet if somebody said you could judge people's character by their skin color, you'd get all pissed off, but you're talking about judging people by their hair color.

Oh yeah, there was a topic... My ideal woman doesn't wear make up, and she only tells me I'm full of s**t when I actually am.

Well. I'll admit something: I'm kind of a sucker for attractive gothic girls...at least until I get to know them. Then, not always so much. Heheheh. Geeky ones as well, but not always as often. Basically what it boils down to is...unfortunately I have to find them at least a LITTLE visually attractive to get interested in the first place, but whether or not the attraction persists depends largely on their personality and values and interests and their chemistry with me...all that stuff. I'm more into serious, "thinker" types for the most part, but if a girl can get me to laugh (and few have) then that's a huge plus.

I'll answer that for myself in one sentence:

Invariably, the wrong ones