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12 Dec 2011, 5:56 am

Have you ever been stalked?

I don't mean someone following posts on a forum, but someone in person harassing you, following you, finding online information on you... etc.

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12 Dec 2011, 6:04 am

Anyone can find out online information about someone - I do it all the time. I dunno why, it's just curiousity. It's not like I'm going to go to their house or follow them in person.

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12 Dec 2011, 6:57 am

Yes. I have a few restraining orders.

Did anyone order pizza?

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12 Dec 2011, 7:08 am

Yep. Not a very fun situation

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12 Dec 2011, 7:31 am

Yes.

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12 Dec 2011, 8:11 am

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

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12 Dec 2011, 8:13 am

I've had a few overly-persistent "admirers" but I was lucky that I figured out how to sour the milk for them, and quickly.

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12 Dec 2011, 8:39 am

hyperlexian wrote:

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

A mixture of this and not having admirers for me

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12 Dec 2011, 8:42 am

MXH wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

A mixture of this and not having admirers for me

are you taking applications?

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12 Dec 2011, 8:50 am

hyperlexian wrote:

MXH wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

A mixture of this and not having admirers for me

are you taking applications?

Seriously, MXH. I don't know you personally, and you're much too young for me, but the way you look at the camera in your pictures is completely puddle-inducing (the good kind of puddle).

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12 Dec 2011, 8:56 am

mv wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

MXH wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

A mixture of this and not having admirers for me

are you taking applications?

Seriously, MXH. I don't know you personally, and you're much too young for me, but the way you look at the camera in your pictures is completely puddle-inducing (the good kind of puddle).

I like MXH's avatar, if that's him.

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12 Dec 2011, 9:00 am

I had some guy keep calling me. He'd stay on the line so nobody else could get through. Later on I heard this rumour at school that he was going to beat me up, then when I became friends with him again (stupid me) he tried to shut my hand in a car door.

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12 Dec 2011, 9:11 am

Yes, I've worked some jobs in very "hip" coffeeshops and restaurants. Sucks when you're trapped at work and can't leave, and they know your schedule. Would have people show up all the time only when I was working, try to "tag along" with me after shift. I have hard time asserting my boundaries, so just couldn't shake them when it happened.

Once had a person give me a copy of "the unbearable lightness of being" at work, trying to get me to "liberate" myself and cheat on my partner. Would show up at my apartment uninvited, etc. Never got the "creepy breather" phone calls though.

Once had a punitive anti-stalker who was getting revenge on me for not sleeping with them. Would tell everyone that we'd had an affair (wasn't true) and would try to kiss me and touch me when I was in public with my (very jealous) partner. Not good times. Not only as I being sexually assaulted by anti-stalker, but was getting load of abuse from partner who believed every word of the fake affair.

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12 Dec 2011, 9:35 am

smudge wrote:

mv wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

MXH wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nope. i am pretty sure i annoy people too much. :lol:

A mixture of this and not having admirers for me

are you taking applications?

Seriously, MXH. I don't know you personally, and you're much too young for me, but the way you look at the camera in your pictures is completely puddle-inducing (the good kind of puddle).

I like MXH's avatar, if that's him.

Ive been taking applications all this time. Nobody has turned one in.

Doesnt seem to translate well into real life then. I have no luck with women.

no thats not me in my avatar. I dont post pics of myself as an avatar

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12 Dec 2011, 9:49 am

MXH wrote:

no thats not me in my avatar. I dont post pics of myself as an avatar

Where are all your photos, then?

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12 Dec 2011, 10:11 am

smudge wrote:

MXH wrote:

no thats not me in my avatar. I dont post pics of myself as an avatar

Where are all your photos, then?

many picture threads around this place

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