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17 Dec 2011, 4:35 pm

I'm currently feeling very lonely and left out. People tend to think we aspies enjoy being alone, and we do indeed, at least most of us, but I need to know people are with me in life every now and then, and my inability to detect this makes me feel really left out at some points. I feel like a creep, like an outcast, and I'm now feeling I've got nothing to do in life, just being alone, always alone, and recalling dates. That's all I feel I can do right now.
I need words of comfort. Please. I may sound selfish and desperate but I can't stop crying and I feel so miserable.



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17 Dec 2011, 4:39 pm

I have no friends, but I have my family. Do you have family? Do you get along with them?

You shouldn't feel so alone. Are you Spanish? :)



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17 Dec 2011, 4:40 pm

Well I don't know if that's gonna cheer ya up but that makes (at least) two of us.
Ed: :)



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17 Dec 2011, 4:44 pm

Hello W.M.A. - I wish you felt better. Well I looked at the interests you listed and they're very similar to my own. So... I don't know what my point is besides that we have a lot in common. I don't know, that might make you feel a little less like an outcast. I can't find the right words but I really sympathize with you, I know how it feels.



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17 Dec 2011, 4:45 pm

(((((hugs)))))

maybe start a hobby that requires interaction with people (i.e. dance or cooking class, model train club, whatever). it's a great way to make new friends.


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17 Dec 2011, 5:02 pm

Miss Acacia, do you have any special interests? If so, what are they?



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17 Dec 2011, 5:08 pm

aw *hugs*

I was going through youtube and found this, it is actually rather creepy..made me laugh though :lol:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt927UZ-0D4&feature=related[/youtube]



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17 Dec 2011, 5:34 pm

Tequila wrote:
I have no friends, but I have my family. Do you have family? Do you get along with them?

You shouldn't feel so alone. Are you Spanish? :)


Yes! I'm Spanish. And my family isn't supportive. :( They wouldn't accept my condition even though I've been diagnosed... thanks so much for your support. You're amazing, thanks! :)



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17 Dec 2011, 5:36 pm

Candles15 wrote:
aw *hugs*

I was going through youtube and found this, it is actually rather creepy..made me laugh though :lol:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt927UZ-0D4&feature=related[/youtube]


HAHAHAHAHAHAHA it actually made me laugh! :wink: Thanks so much *hugs back*. Mwah!



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17 Dec 2011, 5:37 pm

Dunnyveg wrote:
Miss Acacia, do you have any special interests? If so, what are they?


I do. Music, learning languages, writing and reading all about frogs, as well as collecting frog-shaped objects.



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17 Dec 2011, 5:37 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
(((((hugs)))))

maybe start a hobby that requires interaction with people (i.e. dance or cooking class, model train club, whatever). it's a great way to make new friends.


(((((hugs back))))) Thank you! :) You're adorable. Thanks for your advice. I'm so grateful!



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17 Dec 2011, 5:39 pm

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Hello W.M.A. - I wish you felt better. Well I looked at the interests you listed and they're very similar to my own. So... I don't know what my point is besides that we have a lot in common. I don't know, that might make you feel a little less like an outcast. I can't find the right words but I really sympathize with you, I know how it feels.


It's great to know I'm understood. There are not many aspies in my life (in fact, I don't know any aspies personally). And that's why I feel so lonely. It's amazing that we share the same interests. Thanks for your support, you're ace. Thank you so much! :) :oops:



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17 Dec 2011, 5:40 pm

mar00 wrote:
Well I don't know if that's gonna cheer ya up but that makes (at least) two of us.
Ed: :)


Oh... Ed, thank you. It's so beautiful to know there are people out there who would spend a minute cheering me up. So grateful. I'm here for you.

Acacia.



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17 Dec 2011, 5:45 pm

whitemissacacia wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
(((((hugs)))))

maybe start a hobby that requires interaction with people (i.e. dance or cooking class, model train club, whatever). it's a great way to make new friends.


(((((hugs back))))) Thank you! :) You're adorable. Thanks for your advice. I'm so grateful!

heh thanks!! !! no problem. i realised i never looked at your interests until i saw purchase's post. there are nature clubs in my city and there may be something like that in your city too.


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17 Dec 2011, 5:46 pm

whitemissacacia wrote:
Yes! I'm Spanish.


Where are you from in the Kingdom of Spain? You did tell me but I have forgotten. I believe it's a major Spanish city?

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And my family isn't supportive. :(


Why aren't they? They bloody should be. Is there something wrong with them?

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You're amazing, thanks! :)


Thanks, I really appreciate this. :)

I wish I was amazing. "Normal person" will do in the absence of that though. :)



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17 Dec 2011, 5:50 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
heh thanks!! !! no problem. i realised i never looked at your interests until i saw purchase's post. there are nature clubs in my city and there may be something like that in your city too.


What are nature clubs? :)