Notice Me for Christsake!

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I am so tired of being ignored by everyone in real life and on the internet.

I say some well-thought out clever things on this forum and not one person notices.
Then someone says the exact same thing only worded differently. Of course they get many comments and praise.
That is plagiarism which doesn't even bother me that much.
What bothers me is that WP is one big popularity contest just like real life.
I am among the unpopular misfits.

Sometimes I want to say something that will cause a big controversy but I control the urges.
I don't enjoy hurting people but they find no problem with hurting me.

I feel that people just walk right past me and don't notice me at all.
I have very little self esteem but I will say this.
I am very funny,clever and have a great personality when not scared shit-less of people.
People on line have told me that I was an excellent poet. I am not worthless like I sometimes think.

All of that was very hard to admit but I am so sick of hating myself just because the kids at school decided to hate me.
They even beat me pretty badly.
I am tired of hating myself because nobody notices me.

noticed. i dont have time to get on here too often so i would say i probably dont notice most people. your username sounds familiar though, i think i may have read, possibly even commented on something you posted once
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I often feel like no one likes me either. Just when I was starting to feel really bad about it someone came along randomly on WP and had a conversation with me about random things. Some people are very rude and snobbish but some are really nice. Ignore the rude ones. And also, perhaps some people don't comment because they just don't know what to say. I see loads of stuff I'd love commenting on but I cannot seem to find the words all the time. My biggest point is, people DO like you but sometimes its hard for other people too. We eventually come out of our shells though

EDIT : I have also noticed lots of people say the same things just in different ways. So maybe its just writing styles that some people find hard to understand.

Hey just wanted to say if you ever wantto chat to someone just pm i wont ignore you. I dont get too involved in the older post on the forum at the moment, cause im new its like the new boy at school trying to fit in, but if you comment in a post and i notice i will respond

hi, artrat. what have you been up to?

I wouldn't necessarily conclude that no one notices you, I have.

A lack of comments could just mean that people feel they don't have anything to add - I wish WP had "like" buttons like on Facebook.

It helps to end each post with a question or request for feedback too.

Thanks for opening up about your feelings, I think you'll notice a big difference from now on.

I think compared to other forums this one needs a wee update. A lot of forum now include a "like" button or the is karma and you give users a karma point etc

I've noticed your posts. I don't reply to a lot of people on WP, because I'm new and haven't developed any friendships on here yet.

Yeah, I've noticed you too, you seem really neat. And when I say "seem" I don't mean to imply that you're not in fact really neat. Let's say you are really neat actually.