namaste wrote:
Henbane wrote:
namaste wrote:
thanks everyone
the idea of getting a grown up cat sounds better
as i said earlier i work, plus i have a kid at home i cant handle a kitten.
it would pee everywhere plus it would cry at night etc....
i would prefer a grown up cat(at six months are they grown up????)
At six months they are grown up enough to reproduce, but they are still quite kittenish with their behaviour.
Maybe go for a cat aged 3 or older to get one that's more placid. The shelter will thank you for it.
Aged 3 cat would have been raised by others so i wont know its temperament
plus then it wont live longer with us...i think they die around age 9 something
Not true, a cat that has a few years on it will have already developed its personality, so you'll know exactly what you're getting. Shelters have cats of all personalities, including those that have been around kids.
Kittens are sort of hit or miss in that area. You might end up with a kitten that becomes skittish of your family because of sensitivities to children, or one that is mellow and enjoys everyone's company. Cats are 50/50 like that. You can raise them right for most situations, but environmental factors don't always overcome genetic predispositions. There have been studies done that show that most outgoing kittens come from mothers that are naturally more nurturing.
Also, a cat that is taken to the vet regularly (2x a year) can live into it's mid teens to early twenties. If you want a long lived cat, the best thing to do is provide them with premium foods. Some of the best foods on the market for cats are Felidae, Innova, Wellness, Castor and Pollux, Wysong, and my personal favorites: Weruva, and Tiki Cat. Vitamin supplements and some sort of tartar control additive will also keep your cat in perfect working order for years to come, and if there's any digestive upset, mixing a 50/50 percent of canned organic pumpkin (not pie mix) will keep them regular.
I used to do occasional rescue work. Nothing official. There are a lot of irresponsible people on Craigslist, and sometimes my family takes on a pet listed on there that needs a little extra care. So most of what I know is through experience, trial and error, and a lot of pet books.
Pros:
Cats can be very social pets in the right circumstances. (That why I suggest getting an adult.)
Cats don't need to be walked everyday like dogs do and are generally less noisy.
Landlords prefer cats over dogs.
Cats, if given the right food and veterinary care, are long lived. I currently have a three legged cat who is almost 15, and still active and happy!
Cats are great bed warmers!
Cons:
The litterbox needs to be scooped daily, and cleaned weekly to prevent them from soiling in the house.
Cat pee smells terrible, and sometimes even a fixed cat will mark if it's stressed. This is a hard habit to break them from.
Cats have bacteria in their mouths that can cause infections, so if your cat bites you or your child and it breaks the skin, they need to be taken to the doctor immediately for a shot.
Cats scratch furniture if not provided with a post.
Cats have hairballs.
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