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mattron
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15 Mar 2012, 5:39 pm

Hi, my name is Matt I live in Kingston Ontario
I am looking for a meaningful relationship with a women who has AS and lives here in Ontario or nearby New York State ( I live an hour from watertown NY).

The Ideal woman for me would be:

-Enjoy playing video games and watching Movies
- Enjoy Science (Biology, Chemistry)
-a shy person who doesn't like hanging out in crowds
-Has hopes and dreams
-Enjoys Star wars, Star Trek, DC and Marvel
-Likes Dogs and Cats
-Has a nice smile
-Enjoys Travel

Please send me a message if you are interested

Thank you for your time

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15 Mar 2012, 5:42 pm

try OKcupid

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15 Mar 2012, 6:06 pm

How could OK cupid be any better then a dating website such as E harmony?

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15 Mar 2012, 6:45 pm

ok so... these threads really don't work too well.

if you are looking to meet someone, your best bet is to post in the "Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List"
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt62.html

or the "Talk about yourself for a bit" thread:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt27820.html

since you are relatively new to the site and have not built up a presence here, it is highly unlikely that someone will trust you enough to get to know you that quickly. you might want to get more familiar with the site first and post in some different threads so people can see your personality. basically, you've been here less than a week so people would be either suspicious or reticent until lots of time has passed and you have built up a presence on the site.

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15 Mar 2012, 6:51 pm

I've pretty much given up on looking for a mate here. Nobody's close enough geographically...

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15 Mar 2012, 6:56 pm

mattron wrote:

How could OK cupid be any better then a dating website such as E harmony?

Okcupid is a dating site, it just isn't only a dating site (also used for friends)
It is free, never said it worked better than eharmony, but better chance at okcupid than here.

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16 Mar 2012, 3:03 am

mattron wrote:

How could OK cupid be any better then a dating website such as E harmony?

eHarmony tends to reject Aspies who take their personality profile.

hyperlexian wrote:

Those don't work well either because very few people bother to go through the long list & some like me would rather not PM a member until we've replied to their post & their kewl about it.

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16 Mar 2012, 12:28 pm

it's better than these threads. the best option would be to become an extremely active member and show personality on the board. then get to know someone publicly for a while, and finally to PMs. that way the person can get a sense for what the member is all about.

this thread we're posting in is the equivalent of standing in a group of strangers and loudly announcing to everyone that you want a date.

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16 Mar 2012, 1:14 pm

I know what the member is about.

These threads are awesome.

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16 Mar 2012, 8:10 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

That seems more likely logically but my experience contradicts it. I found someone by making a post who hadn't seen most of my other post before & no one else here has ever shown interest in me from me building up a personality

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16 Mar 2012, 9:33 pm

noooooo she could see you were not a n00b, and she would know whether you were a trusted member. it's different from only having a handful of posts

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16 Mar 2012, 9:56 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

noooooo she could see you were not a n00b, and she would know whether you were a trusted member. it's different from only having a handful of posts

^ It's the reason I'm pretty cold when someone with less than 20 posts PM's me.

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16 Mar 2012, 11:22 pm

^ I got a couple of PM's when I had <20 posts.

I get none now, probably due to the distance limit I have now...

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17 Mar 2012, 4:34 am

blue_bean wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

noooooo she could see you were not a n00b, and she would know whether you were a trusted member. it's different from only having a handful of posts

^ It's the reason I'm pretty cold when someone with less than 20 posts PM's me.

I'm not sure if I glanced at her post number or not till after we had started PMing. The scammers usually PM people randomly instead of starting post here.

Comp_Geek_573 wrote:

^ I got a couple of PM's when I had <20 posts.

I get none now, probably due to the distance limit I have now...

I got lots of PMs when I 1st joined from obvious scammers but I haven't got one of them in a while.

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17 Mar 2012, 8:13 am

nick007 wrote:

I got lots of PMs when I 1st joined from obvious scammers but I haven't got one of them in a while.

I have 58 private messages in my Inbox and not one of them from a scam artist, I'm really eager to see what these scam messages people mention are like.

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17 Mar 2012, 2:04 pm

how will other members benefit from knowing how many messages you have in your inbox?

here is a whole thread that talks about scam messages:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt141259.html

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