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DestinyB24
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16 Apr 2012, 2:44 pm

Well I was just wondering if anyone could answer a quick question for me. Or just give me your opinion.
I am bisexual, and I was just wondering if there is any way to know your sexuality, even if you've never actually "been" with someone. I've had girlfriends and boyfriends, but can you really know if you are lesbian, gay, or bisexual if you've never had a physical experiance with any of them?
In my mind I'm thinking really hard about this. Maybe in your mind there is a simple answer, but I just want some input to ease my BRAIN!! ! :D thank you guys very much. I really appriciate all input that everyone gives.

love: Destiny <3


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16 Apr 2012, 3:24 pm

You don't need to have sex to know your sexuality. I know that I'm straight. How? Because I'm attracted to girls, simple as that. It has nothing to do with genitals, at least for me.



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16 Apr 2012, 5:18 pm

DestinyB24 wrote:
Well I was just wondering if anyone could answer a quick question for me. Or just give me your opinion.
I am bisexual, and I was just wondering if there is any way to know your sexuality, even if you've never actually "been" with someone. I've had girlfriends and boyfriends, but can you really know if you are lesbian, gay, or bisexual if you've never had a physical experiance with any of them?
In my mind I'm thinking really hard about this. Maybe in your mind there is a simple answer, but I just want some input to ease my BRAIN!! ! :D thank you guys very much. I really appriciate all input that everyone gives.

love: Destiny <3


I think it really has to do with what you like and how your body responds to how you feel about the attraction you have towards boys/girls that is how you can tell that's my opinon.



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16 Apr 2012, 5:33 pm

Well, I don't know what I can say to make you feel any better about this. But I've never been physically involved with anyone and yet I still know that I'm gay. I find it much more enjoyable to look at pictures naked men then at naked women.



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16 Apr 2012, 5:54 pm

Kinsey Scale test...can probably take it online as a quiz or such.


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