SolaCatella wrote:
Who cares? I never understood that all-possessing obsession some people have with popularity, especially middle schoolers.
Don't even remind me of middle school... the more distance I have from it, the more the experience reminds me of those melodramatic Disney channel shows.
Actually, Elementary school's quite brutal, as well... but somehow, I managed through that.
Popularity, like fitting in, is another metric I don't really care for because it's only a measure of how society percieves you. Honestly, I have little idea of the truth that society says about me.
You also have to consider positive popularity and negative popularity, as both in fact exist.
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I had a friend... scratch that out... I knew someone when I was in tenth grade who was possibly the most negatively popular student in the school. He was popular in the sense that everyone knew who he was. But everyone, when they knew who he was, either ignored him or made fun of him. Both behind his back and in front of his back.
In front: "You're to gay to be here."
Behind: "Do you know this boy--total fag. He smells of old math homework and looks like Harry Potter."
That's how popularity works. I NEVER understood what people hated about him. I found that he behaved amazingly normal (although a suspicious bit trustworthy) for a person in such a difficult situation.
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