Any guy here NEVER hung out with a girl?

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I'm 19. Okay I've hung out with a girl TWICE in my life. But that barely means anything. Everyone calls me weird, but girls take this to the extreme. I had no idea what was it about me that was so weird until I found out a couple girls said I sounded "extremely boring". Is that why I've never hung out with a girl!? I was expecting a more legitimate reason.

Well I have friends who are girls. Never dated or anything like that, but do meet sometimes.

Is there a place that I can move to with nice girls? Because there sure are none where I live.

Or maybe I should start dating at 40 since that's when people become more mature.

Where do you live? And what do you mean as "nice"?

Not necessarily everyone is by then. Some do mature early... some later and some never do mature.
The ones that don't are just cheddar... immature cheddar.
As far as hanging out, I've done so with friends... maybe not so much in the whole relationship razzamatazz. Oh well.

same here

Move to Seattle. They have nice girls here.

Funny you say that as a trademark of Aspies is emotional immaturity (bad organization, understanding of others' feelings,etc.)

It's not about OTHERS' immaturity, it's your own.

Make yourself worthy of being hung out with, so to speak.

Never dated, and wouldn't know what to do as even the directions here are confusing.

I was talking about people in general, myself included . However, on the other hand, you can't take life too seriously...

Ouch

I use to be in a group with a girl named Terra in elementary school. I sort of had a crush on her though I was to shy to express it and she probably didn't notice. i saw her again for a short period during a high school introduction thing but I didn't actually stay in mainstream high school for very long cuz of sensory overloads and stuff its been 2 years since i last saw her and I guess i'm a bit depressed, i wish I could have a meaningfull conversation with her (not good at verbal skills) or at least see her again without getting nervous but i guess beggars can't be choosers

^ This.

No. Just no.

I am 42, and no, I have never dated or hung out with a girl. I don't see the purpose of hanging out with anyone these days, in fact.

Hung out? That's weird. I don't hang out with guys nevermind girls. The only girls i've hung out with i've had sex with. Without sex i dont think i'd have a reason to hang out with girls.