mmcool wrote:
the word nurotypical is getting old and it's meaning is not that right we need a new word for nurotypicals
please reply with suggestions
1) Actually, the word neurotypical is, comparatively very, very new.
2) Since when does a word's age have anything to do with anything (its appropriateness, value, descriptiveness, etc). It seems you're trying to say you're unhappy with this word for some particular reason, but don't want to identify what that reason is. If you explained this, I might be inclined to be on your side on this, but on the basis of the word's age, I'm not. What exactly about its meaning is wrong? It seems very clear and accurate to me.
3) People should not be hung up on "normal", which simply means "most commonly occurring". "Normal" isn't something anyone should feel a need to aspire to. It's literally referring to commonness. The far bigger problem is the fear that makes people uncomfortable with their uniqueness. Have pride and appreciation for who you are. Not in the sense of "superiority", but just love yourself for exactly who you are. Be kind to yourself and give yourself a break. Don't judge yourself by the standards of ignorant and hostile people, or try to prove anything to them. You are different (i.e. not "normal")? FANTASTIC! You are actually an interesting person who has value and who brings who brings something to the table. Abandoning this (which you can't really do anyway) just to "fit in" is what is truly objectionable, and quite sad.