too many rejections!

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What the hell is wrong with me I know I am not ugly or anything. But cursed
When ever I get near a female they look the other way! When it comes to the oppisite sex
It is always failure! i am getting tired of this 500 rejections so far! maybe not that much What is wrong with me??
(I don't want a marylin monroe or a pamela lee anderson) i keep getting "let's just be friends!" excuse

I know i shouldn't be posting this But I will end up like the 40 year old virgin

WTF is wrong with me?

i MUST be a loser for this to keep happening.
I hate god

Specify specific scenarios so we can help you out. Like when was the last time you were rejected? Can you give us a minute description of everything that happened?

I used to do be in a tenpin bowling league I met a girl We exchanged phone numbers
we rang each other for a while got to know each other better. finaly we arranged to have dinner at the local bistro (pub resturant ) having a great night. We decided to go to the local night club. On the way she turned around and said "i don't want a boyfriend" I mumble something incoherently under my breath so she could not here it. the next day i found out she just asked somebody else out and now there happily married!

I also know this girl for 4 years she also show no interest in me

Now you can see my failures i am having in life!

I swear the next person who does this, is gonna cause me to get grey hair.

Anyone who needs advice. PLEASE PM me?!

I can help.

I am after all, a psychologist type person.

What you have to do is take a stand, man. Women play head games... it's their favorite social past time.

The whole "let's just be friends" thing is a product of you not letting them know what YOU want. You have to make it very clear to women from the beginning what your intentions are, through body language (yes! this takes work) or otherwise.

If a girl gives you the whole friends speech, and you're not interested in being friends with her, then take my advice: DON'T SETTLE FOR SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT. If she's not going to give you what you want, then just cut her out of your life. Tell her your friends list is full, and if she doesn't want to be something more, then that's fine... but she will have to live with the outcome.

Rejection is normal, every guy experiences it. It's dealing with that rejection and turning it into social courage and confidence which makes boys become men.

See my guide for more. (update coming soon!)

Is that your only example? That is hardly 500 times.

The next girl that tells you this - you need to ask them why. Tell them you want an honest answer. If you never get any feedback you can use then you will never learn what it is you're doing that makes you in the "friends" category rather than in the "marriage" category.

I sure feel the same way!

yeah.

my ex said taht datiing me was a waste of her time, and shes an aspie. and she's 27 and a freshman......she has problems. she said that I don't listen to any side of the story but my own, Ive got no social courtesy, I'm a jerk, and that I will suffer.

but seriously, rejections sometimes make you a better person,they make you focus on what you need to do to fix yourself.

And when I try to say something positive, it doesn't work! Not even if someone would admit they liked me in the past!

everyone's experiences are different Lars.