Meet the girl lover

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Joined: 12 Jan 2005
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11 Mar 2005, 8:46 pm

Hello, I am boy in case you don't know. I love girls and think some are hot however I fear them. I fear girls because I'm afraid their going to turn me into a monster. Girls are awfully powerful.
I don't like boys that hurt girls because they insult my kindness and respect toward them. I am a boy who respects girls very much and I admire them for their abilities.
I hope any girls who read this understand... :cry:

hale_bopp
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11 Mar 2005, 10:30 pm

Not all girls are nice.

Welcome to WP, btw.

I hope you enjoy it here.

synx13
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12 Mar 2005, 1:52 pm

I think I understand. Are you saying that you respect girls, and think that too many boys hurt them, and that you are afraid of doing the same thing in a romantic relationship? I've noticed myself that many boys feel aggressive towards the girls they like. And you are feeling that, and worrying it will make you act like the guys you do not want to be like? One thing you might try is imagining other ways to be aggressive than the mean things these guys do. The classic "Hollywood" example is how a guy likes a girl, and uses that to motivate himself to complete some strenuous difficulty or challenge. I don't agree with that sort of sidelining of girls myself, but if it helps you be more comfortable gung ho. Just try to remember that the feelings will never make you do what you truly do not want to do, as long as you don't bottle them in and suppress them. You probably don't have to worry about it: just act on your feelings and you'll be surprised how much of a relief it is, and how comfortable you can be without taking things to extremes.

Most guys are jerks because they don't care about the women they jerk around with. It has little to do with their sex drive, or even aggression. As long as you treat people like people, not like trash, and not like precious things, you will almost 100% never have any urges to do otherwise.

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12 Mar 2005, 6:40 pm

Bluwan, in the past, I have found women to be generally more empathetic than men, but not all women are this way, and some men can be very empathetic too. Having a healthy regard for members of the opposite sex is definitely a good thing.

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12 Mar 2005, 6:42 pm

synx13 wrote:

You know that Girls hurt alot of guys, too?

Bluwan
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17 Mar 2005, 8:38 pm

Yes, I know girls hurt men. However the problem is you never see a news reporter interviewing a guy that was sexually molested by a girl. All you see is a girl being interviewed because she was molested by a guy. In my opinion in just makes boys, like me, look bad.

Thank you for your understanding...

kuan
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18 Mar 2005, 7:50 am

nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

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18 Mar 2005, 5:45 pm

kuan wrote:

nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

Bzzzt! Wrong answer!

Nice girls have not extincted, they are just an endangered species, so to speak. This girl who I am interested in is an EXTREMELY intelligent, demure, and courteous girl. She has never had a grade lower than an A on a report card, and has never received an F or a Zero on an assignment. She scores at at least the 96th percentile in all areas on standardized testing (otherwise she wouldn't be in enrichment), and she has the LONGEST attention span of anyone I have met in my entire life! She never uses the word "ain't" except when telling other people not to say it (which is incredibly rare around this area), and she is extremely nice and cultured. NTs call her appearance "nerdy", but I think she's extremely pretty. She is in a little circle of friends, and she has a mysterious way of avoiding being picked on by boys. But she is much too busy to spend time with me. She must be very overwhelmed by her schedule. (Figures. All 6th graders are busy.) Everyone says we look very cute together. But we are both too wise and intelligent to go out with eachother(or anyone, for that matter) at our young age. She's 11, and I'm 13.

So you see, girls can be nice and intelligent. They are just few and far between.

Chris

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18 Mar 2005, 6:56 pm

kuan wrote:

Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

You say that like it's a bad thing.... I am strongly attracted to tomboys and sissies. I can't stand girls that wear excessive makeup or extremely feminine clothing, and don't have any use for low-IQ muscle-studs.

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19 Mar 2005, 8:01 am

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nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

Gender stereotypes can go to hell. Gender is a state of mind. Since there is no such thing male personality or female personality its stupid for society to force people to act in a certain way because they are born a boy or a girl.

Although I am male I am a feminist; I think its useless to confine people to fall into a certain cookie-cutter stereotype, and I think women are still repressed by our culture today, because they are objectified, and also because many face a glass ceiling when it comes to jobs.

Acknowledging that, we must realize that everyone has the capacity to hurt and abuse others, regardless of gender.

kuan
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19 Mar 2005, 8:25 am

Chris wrote:

kuan wrote:

nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

I am happy for you, sincerely.. =)
By the way, I love the poem you wrote on another forum.

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kuan
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19 Mar 2005, 8:26 am

Jetson wrote:

kuan wrote:

Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

Neither the opposite...

kuan
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19 Mar 2005, 8:36 am

RadioHead wrote:

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nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

it's not act, it's courteousy. certainly there's nothing wrong for girls to be strong and guys to be sensitive.

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19 Mar 2005, 9:03 am

kuan wrote:

nice girls have extincted... those demure, intelligent, curteous ones.. sigh.. no more.. In the past, girls learn to be a lady and guys a gentleman. Now girls are tomboy and guys are sissy...

Oh no, we still exist. Although we generally do not go for guys whose homepage is a porno site, usually we have more self-respect!!

kuan
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19 Mar 2005, 9:14 am

Mockingbird wrote:

Oh no, we still exist. Although we generally do not go for guys whose homepage is a porno site, usually we have more self-respect!!