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qwertyuiop1994
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06 Oct 2012, 6:51 am

I find it easier to talk to children rather than adults (this is part of the reason i want to be a teacher). Do others find those older, younger or the same age easier to talk to?



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06 Oct 2012, 7:03 am

Definitely younger. Less expectation of social norms.

Unless you're talking about my younger siblings - All but the youngest of them tend to be bias against me ;_;



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06 Oct 2012, 7:13 am

Yep same reason



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06 Oct 2012, 7:33 am

Nope, when I was a kid I couldn't relate to anyone my age.
I'd verbally spar with full grown adults by age 10.



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06 Oct 2012, 7:40 am

Now that you are an adult can you still relate to them? because when I was little I also couldn't relate to children and I could to adults but now when I'm expected to relate to adults/teenagers I find it very hard and find my self being able to talk to children much more easily.



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06 Oct 2012, 7:59 am

Still pretty young, so no. I am better at talking to older people.
People in their late 20's, and early 30's get along with me better than anyone.
I have younger siblings and I get along with them very well.
Thing is, they are cool little girls.
I find all their little friends annoying and cannot be in the same room with them for more than a few minutes.
My siblings are my siblings, though, so of course I can get along with them.
I think the general idea here is the same.
You are simply more attuned to be young-minded and I'm more attuned to being old-minded.
Doesn't mean we any more or less mature than one another.
I used to know a fellow who only hung out with people his younger (me being one of them).
I suspect he may have had Asperger's.
Children and old folks have something wise and cerebral about them that you don't notice unless you aren't one of them.



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06 Oct 2012, 8:01 am

I'm 23, and I'm most comfortable talking to those who are roughly at my age.

Adolescents: They often make fun of me, so I avoid me.
Children: I don't talk children so often, and when I do, I have no idea what to do.
Older than me: No real problem, but their life is often quite different from mine. (They have a job, a family, etc.)



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06 Oct 2012, 8:15 am

Everyone except those people who are around the same age as me.
Pretty much noone is easy to talk to, though.


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06 Oct 2012, 10:34 am

Younger, due to their less understanding or maturity or whatever.
But like 14-15 ish, not like little kids.

Though I do enjoy just spending time with people in general. Manhood or whatever it is is coming.

Though I do relate to the previous poster in that I would like talk to adults when I was little.


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06 Oct 2012, 10:46 am

I don't have much trouble with people in their mid 20s and older.



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06 Oct 2012, 11:24 am

For the most part the early 20s. If I'm lucky, people my age....


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06 Oct 2012, 2:46 pm

Hmm interesting how come people say young adults are easier to talk to. I'd like to know what it is that you find easier about them :)



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06 Oct 2012, 3:03 pm

As a child until I was about 20, I only felt comfortable speaking to adults over 30. The older the better.

Now that I'm an adult (27), I feel most comfortable speaking to children aged 3-6 years old. Fortunately, that's my job.

I've never felt comfortable talking to older kids (about 8+) or teenagers. Especially teenagers. *shudder*



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06 Oct 2012, 5:21 pm

The problem with making younger friends: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhWoFUpz ... page#t=55s



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07 Oct 2012, 12:59 am

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07 Oct 2012, 2:58 am

I'd say people close to my age. Anyone college age till 30 probably. Older people, I sometimes find them boring or not very relatable. Sorta have to be on good behavior. As for kids/teens, well Im not very good with people when they have a lower maturity level and I sorta have to be the leader. See when I started socializing around 17, 18, I was so immature for my age that I was sorta the kid. I held that "kid" role in the friendship, then I worked my way up to having friends of an equal level of maturity by the time I was 21. Never knowing how to take the upper hand in the relationship.