Stepdad Harassing and stalking me via mmorpgs

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10 Nov 2012, 10:14 pm

So I have been constantly been harassed ny my stepdad online now it wasn't enough for him to mentally abuse me in real life when I used to live with him he has to harass me on my favorite mmorpg and send real life threats as well as make fun of me and mention real life info out in the open.He has been banned before for this and seems to not care I put him on ignore what he does is start a new toon to bypass it and harass me.Its pissing me off.


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11 Nov 2012, 1:45 am

I'm really sorry to hear that your stepdad is behaving this way. It just proves how petty and immature he is. If he's threatening you (especially if it's death threats) then you can bring it to the attention of the police. You can also get a restraining order against him so that he can't have any contact with you.



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11 Nov 2012, 2:44 am

I have already reported the text he has been saying to the GMs hopefully hell be banned for good some how he figured out I changed my characters name he's been spending months looking for me online just so he can harass me bully me and make real life gun threats.He also disclosed my personal information icluding my rl name out in the open and in general chat and mentioning my autism and laughing about it.


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11 Nov 2012, 2:58 am

I would imagine these game people have the ability to ban his entire IP address so NO toons would get through... maybe that was just in the old days.



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11 Nov 2012, 4:02 am

BlueMax wrote:
I would imagine these game people have the ability to ban his entire IP address so NO toons would get through... maybe that was just in the old days.
They will get their entire accounts banned they already have been suspended twice before for harrassing someone else assuming that player was me and also griefing other players in a zone.


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11 Nov 2012, 9:56 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
So I have been constantly been harassed ny my stepdad online now it wasn't enough for him to mentally abuse me in real life when I used to live with him he has to harass me on my favorite mmorpg and send real life threats as well as make fun of me and mention real life info out in the open.He has been banned before for this and seems to not care I put him on ignore what he does is start a new toon to bypass it and harass me.Its pissing me off.


I would suggest you take yourself offline and come back up online with new IDs in such a way that he will never find you. The way this guy sounds, total seperation seems the way to go. Don't look back. But I would seriously consider reporting the threats to police. Get him on file and if he continues maybe get court involved. I know that may be hard, but with this kind it is important for them to see you will fight back.



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11 Nov 2012, 10:00 pm

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12 Nov 2012, 4:51 am

Are you stronger than him, could you beat him up if you tried? If not hire someone to beat his ass. Or wait for him in a dark place with a baseball bat and break his legs. Bullies like that dont deserve anything else.


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12 Nov 2012, 5:15 am

Stalkers are never good to deal with, I had to remake accounts from scratch on some mmos as name changes dont really work as other people who know you will be used as a means to find put your character's name so the offender cab stalk again if they know your social circle.

Best of luck with your stalker.