there has to be women who like shy men

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I just been thinking about this. There got to be some women out there they like shy men or
like social awkward men. There is no way 100% of women hates or refuse to date shy or social awkward men.
My ex gf could not be the only woman who had ever a dated a social awkward man(me).
they have to exist. somewhere

Oh, shy or socially awkward can be hot if there are other qualities along with it. I remember this one guy I had the biggest hots for back when I was young. He was pretty socially awkward and very shy. He played guitar in a friends band. I used to go over and give him the eye. He would get so flustered he would turn red and could only do this giggle thing. We used to hang out sometimes and he would say the craziest stuff and it was great.

He was too shy to actually get past me sitting in his room and him talking about his guitars though. I tried, lord knows I tried.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

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You are correct.

Oh yeah. The number of shy guys that I've fancied like mad... but I've been too shy to do anything other than attempt to flirt ineptly, and meanwhile another girl has come on the scene and not been too shy to tell him straight. Next thing he's utterly devoted to her.

Hmmm, there's a lesson in there I'm just not learning, isn't there?

Seems like bossy women love shy men. Maybe you could be more assertive?

Take me home today! [bats eyes]

They're rare.

Not so rare. At least I know plenty of girls, myself included, who appreciate shyness in guys. I love it when a shy guy lets me "in". The part that gets discouraging is if maintaining anything gets too overwhelming, as is apt to happen with anyone on the spectrum. I think I fall somewhere between NT and AS and I *really* need my space. So I am willing and able to give a guy wiggle room. If he still keeps me guessing as to whether he's interested or not, even with pretty low expectations of attention, that's where I'm apt to throw in the towel after a while.

Women that like shy or loveshy men, and/or Aspies do exist. I've never had any luck meeting one though.

Oh dear god, No.
Women liking shy men? Perish the thought. My dear man, I would sooner be dipped into a vat of creamed corn than to be caught while a single electron within my body survived in the presence of a shy man. Horse whipped with an actual horse, when I come to think of it.

I beg of you. No, sir...I beseech you: do not, repeat NOT ask me to suffer 1/10th of a nanosecond within fifty paces of an introverted male of the human species or my heart will most certainly implode like a Space Food Stick entering a black hole.

Oh, is there no mercy? Kill me now!

Thank you for this small mercy.

PS: shy men are quite attractive as long as they're sweet people, too. TEASE.

You are correct, not every woman hates a shy man. I find that a shy man often opens up after a while and (IMO, of course - based off experience), that although it can take time, some people that are naturally shy have terrific personalities and are great people to be around. It just takes time. Personally, I prefer shy men. But that's just my opinion. I find that men that aren't shy are just too much to handle.

There's probably a some, in the sense that there are probably some straight males who aren't interested in naked female breasts.

Haven't had much like in finding any. Guess the ones in here make up the entire portion of women who do.

They're as rare as Halley's Comet.