I've noticed that having sex with guys actually helps me to understand women...
The thing is...I mostly feel like a woman when fooling around with a guy.
One time, for instance, i really wanted the guy to grab my inner thigh. I communicated this by spreading my legs really wide, really "opening myself up" to him, in a really obvious way...which he kinda ignored...sadly.
A couple of weeks later, I was fooling around with a girl when I noticed her doing exactly the same thing! I immediatly grabbed her thigh and I could really tell she was into it.....
Anyone else with similar experiences?