Young guy liking an older guy

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I used to think that young guys dating significantly older guys was kinda gross. But lately I met a 31 year old (I'm 19) who is really nice and good looking for his age. Like many other well adjusted aspies, I am more mature than other guys my age so that is a bonus for both of us. I also think it might be good because I am a virgin and he could 'teach' me stuff, which could be fun for both of us. What do all of you think about MM relationships with age gaps? Do any other young gay aspies find the idea of a 'teacher/student' relationship (nothing to do with school in real life) kinda hot? lol

Some people believe age is just a number, but hey, you never know.

that is a fantasy for somebody of my age.

I think it could work out just fine. I've seen gay and straight age gap couples work really well. I don't think 12 years is a huge age gap unless the people involved want different things for example the younger one wants to party and the older one wants to settle down. However, seeing as you are an Aspie, I don't think we need to worry about partying

I hope it all works out for you. As with all relationships you'll never know unless you try. Good luck!

Assuming that there are no legal prohibitions, there is absolutely no problem with any relationship between two people that is mutually fulfilling.

The risks that exist in a relationship with an age gap are funamentally identical to the risks that exist in any other relationships. It doesn't matter whether your partner is the same age, a dozen years older or a dozen years younger--you can hurt your partner, and you can be hurt by your partner. So long as both people are bringing honesty and respect to their relationship, then I say, "more power to you."

Best of luck frostbite, I reckon this relationship can work out great if you give it a chance. Age is not important, especially to Aspies, as we can generally relate to people in any age group. Trust it goes OK and that you can be happy with one another.

All my partners thus far have been my age or older. Older people are awesome.