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dirtybit81
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15 Dec 2012, 10:30 am

Greetings,

I am kind of lost on what to do. Been dating a girl for over month and half. We get along very well. I am aspie and she is nt. The problem that has come up. When I spend the night over there is no affection show to me. She will let me hold her and rub her back. Might get a kiss when I leave. We have slept together twice.


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15 Dec 2012, 12:15 pm

Does she know that you're AS?


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15 Dec 2012, 12:17 pm

Sounds like things are going fine to me. Any mood swings on her end?



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15 Dec 2012, 12:30 pm

Is she the one who holds back? Do you initiate anything?



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15 Dec 2012, 6:01 pm

Yes , She is the only one holding back. I initiate everything.



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16 Dec 2012, 3:44 pm

Sounds like a "Friends With Benefits" situation.

What connects you romantically to her, and vice versa?



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17 Dec 2012, 10:00 am

That's good question. I am thinking the same thing here.



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18 Dec 2012, 8:56 pm

It would be good if you could know her more.



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18 Dec 2012, 8:56 pm

It would be good if you could know her more.