A fling with a celebrity

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I'm in a pretty unconventional situation at the moment... If I've ever had a celebrity crush in my life, it's a certain A-lister in my country who I also happened to meet a couple of weeks ago at a charity ball. After building enough courage to go and say "hi" to him, I was pretty blown away when he actually started flirting with me and ended up giving me his number. I can still recall when back in high school, just seeing a picture of this disturbingly handsome man was enough make my heart beat rapidly and my face turn red. I sent him a text a day later which quickly led to intense exchange of around 80 very flirtatious texts and an invitation to his hotel room in the upcoming weekend... It had already been quite obvious from the text number three that he was only after one thing and I got to admit that my initial excitement had turned to nausea for a moment (he had seemed like a person I'd genuinely like to get to know better). I chose to carry on, however, and try to regard the whole event as what probably would end up being one wonderful night before waking up back to reality.

After the rules about discretion had been made very clear we had a very hush meeting at his hotel room. Quite honestly, for the most part, it was simply heavenly... We spend three to four hours being intimate, drinking champagne, in a bubble bath and simply talking and teasing each other. I was left with very mixed feelings, though; Physically he's beyond perfection and is a talented lover (even though he did manage to hurt me as well), but I find it very difficult to decide what to make of his personality; It was pretty clear very soon that any image media has ever portrayed of him is complete rubbish and even though he's very witty and annoyingly charming, I find a lot of the things he says of himself, his acts and other people very disturbing (especially about his past adventures with women, though I can't claim to be a saint in that front either). Then again, this man has very recently ended a serious long-term relationship after a great many years. Perhaps he wants to re-establish himself as a ladies man. Overall we had wonderful chemistry with no awkward moments, though.

Right now I feel quite confused about everything... I know that it all actually happened because I still have the texts and we are still in touch through them (though less intensely) and have talked about meeting again. What I've been wondering is that will I only get myself burned, if I stay in touch with him? There's also a risk that the media finds out at some point and it's an utterly intolerable idea for me to get into some gossip magazine. The idea of actual dating seems to be out, it's completely wrong time in his life even to consider that I believe. It's annoying how much I've been thinking about him since last meeting him, even if I think I probably shouldn't even like him. He's like a mystery that I'm akin to solve and having secretly fantasized over him since my high school years makes it slightly difficult to me to not have some emotional attachment to him even though the reasoning behind it feels so ridiculous.

Then again, there is already another man that I have gotten close to in the past months, but we both know all too well that starting a relationship would be very difficult because of the distance we share. I will be travelling to meet him within weeks, though.

My mind has felt like a complete mess in the past week and I'm not completely sure I even understand what the biggest problem is... *sigh*

Congrats, your picture will be on a magazine's cover soon.

Not funny...

Ok Lilya, now switching to my serious and albeit harsh side:

You should expect that getting involved with a celeb has the risk of getting you unwanted fame. A user here might be jerk enough to sell the info in this thread to some Finnish magazine for example.

You should also have expected that celebs are often ladies man and a forever love for them is a total joke.

If I was you, I would get more involved with him and then I write a silly book about this destined-to-fail relationship (he will drop you eventually) and sell thousands of copies $$$$$. I might sell some nude pics of him too $$$$

Sweet revenge and $$$$$$$

Muhahahahah

Oh wait, you're European, so it's €€€€€€€ in your case.

I don't believe it's unwanted fame, Lilya.

how big is this country singer? like local, regional, mainstream country?

First Mystery, now this country singer.

Next guy will be Psy, maybe after he loses load of weight and re-shape himself.

OPPA LILYA STYLE!! !

I'd be inclined to just leave things as they are (maybe meet another once or twice if you wish for indulgence sake) and consider your high school fantasy at least somewhat fulfilled.

I dunno, this is a very unique situation, and probably a one in a million situation for anyone on WP. People here can't even get other lowly specks of dirt to talk to them. In comparison to that hooking up with a [good looking, wealthy and charming] celebrity and the torn feelings proceeding it isn't exactly a negative life problem IMO.

I'd still have a chance with my teen celebrity crush if he didn't come out gay and move to Palm Springs

Last edited by blue_bean on 27 Dec 2012, 8:54 am, edited 1 time in total.

If it was me, I'd stay well away from him. It may have been nice physically, but he doesn't sound like a keeper otherwise. That mightn't matter if all you wanted was a nice time, but the price would be hideous, if it went public in this case. And he'd probably be no support to you if it came out, since it's just a fling. He might even blame you. Now might be a good time to stop - you've had the high school dream in bed, and it has been really flattering, and it you stop now, you might be safe from the media. But they'll find out if you keep going, you know they will. It could be a lovely memory, and a nice secret to keep for yourself. Or it could be a media clusterf**k. Whatever you do, be really careful...

^ If the media were to publicize every single celebrity fling, Woman's Day would be as thick as an encyclopedia (half of the pages filled with Russell Brand)

Though there could be eyes on this particular celebrity since he's just out of a long term relationship. The paparazzi tend to do that, so they can sensationalize when they see someone new on their arm.

It's not like Lilya doesn't smell of celebrity herself. We've seen her pictures.

WOW that must be terrible im so sorry....you get to have sex with the celebrity of your and many other womens' fantasies.....he is still texting you wanting more, AND you can become famous.
Not to mention you;ve said in other threads that you can get tons of male and female attention elsewhere.

The point of this thread was?
It seems you are always braggin about the attention you receive.

Thanks Boo... I doubt even trashy magazine would buy a story about "some" celeb and "some" girl. Nonetheless, I was thinking whether to say anything at all about this here even anonymously.

Based on my meeting with him and our conversations, I doubt he's a keeper, but to be fair, he has only meant to be nice to me even off the bed. There's something very addictive about him and that's incredibly annoying.

Good thing is that media over here is not merely as bad as let's say in UK or USA. He's a private person and I have absolutely no interest in my private affairs getting to media either. I'm not that desperate for money.

Lol, Mystery most certainly WASN'T someone I bedded. I'm not even sure if he tried to flirt with me or not. I just thought he was a douche.

A country singer?

I'm not trying collect any list or "score" anyone, I go for people I feel attracted to as much as any normal person.

I suppose that's a compliment... I've modeled, but it's very different to what I study and actually work with in life. I want to keep the two separated along with my private life.