I just want to cuddle with another guy.

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16 Jan 2013, 1:19 pm

I don't really want a super deep intense relationship. I just want someone who can look me in the eye and say, "I love you." Someone who can hold me in a way that says, "You're safe now, there's someone in the world...who is just like you."

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16 Jan 2013, 1:38 pm

Nothing wrong with that and there are even gatherings that cater to this desire.

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16 Jan 2013, 6:00 pm

We all know that feeling.

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17 Jan 2013, 12:07 pm

Would be nice.

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17 Jan 2013, 8:31 pm

we can dream, nobody has outlawed that yet.

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05 Feb 2013, 3:23 am

I want to cuddle with a girl

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05 Feb 2013, 4:58 pm

Same here. I'm much more affectionate than horny. Nine times out of ten, if I had to choose between sex with a guy and just using him as a pillow on my couch as we watch TV, I would pick the latter.

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07 Feb 2013, 7:37 pm

Um, if the words I love you are being uttered, then that immediately means intense feelings are involved

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07 Feb 2013, 9:31 pm

ProfessorMcfat wrote:

You will find that in a deep instense relationship . In order to feel the effects of the "I love you", you need to feel the deep and intense. Make sense?

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07 Feb 2013, 11:12 pm

Definitely agree with you on that.

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08 Feb 2013, 6:14 am

Me, too, I agree with you guys (last two or three posts) on that. But I don't mean to point out the OP's illogicality. I think the OP probably means by "super deep intense relationship" a relationship involving a lot of corny slushy emotions/actions with a lot of drama. If I take it that way, I can fully agree with the OP. I don't want a super deep intense relationship, but want a man who (can tell me he) loves me and whom I can cuddle with.

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