Awkward with girls and deciphering signals

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20 Jan 2013, 10:07 pm

I've never had a relationship off of the Internet, and I have trouble understanding when girls are interested in me. Posted this cause I met this gal who works at a Men's Warehouse in my town. She was just too damn cute, plus I am very likely getting a job soon so I'd actually be able to take her out if she said yes. Seemed as though she liked me, but I've been wrong before. Any insight at all would be welcome



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20 Jan 2013, 10:13 pm

Don't have enough information to go on. can you give any more?



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20 Jan 2013, 10:13 pm

20 Flirting Signs That A Girl You just met Likes You

1. A woman will get closer to you in proximity.

You may even get the feeling she is hovering around you or trying to eavesdrop on your conversations.

2. She will keep making eye contact with… then quickly look away.

3. She will smile at you. This will be a genuine ”slow smile” not a nervous or forced smile.

4. She’ll find reasons to talk to you.

5. She’ll be the first to ask your name… or other personal questions about you.

6. She will give you a flirtatious nickname. (this is a powerful flirting sign)

7. She’ll attempt to find out how old you are or if you’re single.

8. She’ll be lightly touching you during a conversation

9. She will move closer to you as the two of you are talking

10. She will be laughing at all of your jokes… even the unfunny ones (another powerful flirting sign)

11. She’ll come up with future plans. For instance, she’ll mention a movie that she wants you to see or a place you have to checkout.

12. She’ll send you random text messages

13. You will be able to sense a jealousy when you talk about other girls.

14. She’ll be eager to introduce you to her friends.

15. She’ll tease you about something

16. She calls you a “player” or “heartbreaker”

17. She asks if you have a girlfriend, or she mentions your girlfriend to see what you say

18. She plays with or tosses her hair as she is talking to you

19. She compliments you a lot

20. She tries to keep the conversation going so that you don’t leave.

I didn't create this list, I took it from the internet - not sure where - got it a long time ago when I was trying to figure this out myself - it's all true.

The hard part is noticing the signs - easy part is asking her out when you've figured out she does like you because she's basically already told you yes.

Good luck mate!



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20 Jan 2013, 10:16 pm

One thing I forgot to mention is be careful of someone who is working, often they are nice to you because they have to be.

Tougher call to make in that situation - but what's the worst that can happen? You ask her out, she says no, you don't go back to that store....



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21 Jan 2013, 1:41 am

Women (and men) in sales jobs very often have a finely honed sense of how to please visitors and make them feel welcome. Don't confuse that with romantic (or friendly) interest.

On the other hand, sometimes there really is such interest.

You'll do fine if you aren't afraid of either answer. The most successful "daters" I know are the ones who don't take it personally when someone isn't interested in them; in fact they remain very friendly and casual either way. I think that helps women avoid the bizarre and not entirely respectable "eek" factor.



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21 Jan 2013, 2:02 am

Rifter wrote:
20 Flirting Signs That A Girl You just met Likes You

Is there a list for flirting signs that a man you just met likes you? Men would maybe do some of these things, not the hair tossing one or the flirty nickname one :)



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21 Jan 2013, 2:05 am

All you have to do is check if he has a tent bulging out from between the legs of his jeans while interacting with you.



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21 Jan 2013, 2:04 pm

OnPorpoise wrote:
Rifter wrote:
20 Flirting Signs That A Girl You just met Likes You

Is there a list for flirting signs that a man you just met likes you? Men would maybe do some of these things, not the hair tossing one or the flirty nickname one :)


How to tell if a man is interested in you -

1. Is he talking to you?

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