OfTheWillowFae wrote:
How do you actually prove that you can't work without actually getting a job and then completely melting down, losing self-respect, etc.? I get benefits for food, but those will not last. I cannot be anywhere near loud sounds, crowds, florescent lighting, and if there's a storm nearby, I'm a completely non-functioning mess.
How do I "prove" that? My family has been trying to find out how, but they can't, and the government (social security, social services, etc.) are unable to do a thing. Which doctor would actually be able to diagnose these issues? I've been to plenty, and they act like I'm just mental or like it's not a "big deal." It's huge. I can't even leave my house more than once a week, rarely twice.
How it worked for me was I saw a child phycologist (probably now how it's spelled) and she interviewed me for about an hour.she also had me compete some sort of report stating how I perceived social cues and stuff like that.I really don't remember it was 2 and a half years ago.And i feel your pain when it comes to florescent lights, the CFL bulbs don't bother me that much as long they are not some cheap and nasty brand that flickers or hums, but those florescent tube lights that most stores use get on my nerves and give me a headache most of the time.