You didn't get Aspergers at age 12. If you have it, you had it ever since you were born, but may not have been DIAGNOSED until you were 12. Everyone on the spectrum is born with the condition.
I can`t say that I ever feel like I don't know what reality is or not...I don't think that is an autistic quality. A lot of people say autistic people often seem like they are in their own world, and people have certainly said this often about me. I might LOOK like I am in my own world, but to ME it is reality. So no, I've never felt that way.
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Diagnosed with classic Autism
AQ score= 48
PDD assessment score= 170 (severe PDD)
EQ=8 SQ=93 (Extreme Systemizer)
Alexithymia Quiz=164/185 (high)