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At lunch, there is this girl that I absolute cannot stand, and she sits at my table. She is extremely divalike, rude, and really clique-ish. I always sit on the opposite end of her because this b**** gave me one of the worst days of my high school life. I am nearly fed up with her. I only sit with her because she is nice to my friends (except one who agrees with me).She frequently voices her dislike of me and my friend. My friends all laugh as if it is joke and that her whining is hilarious. She yelled at me because I did not move because she did not want to be near my wierd friend and no "friend" came to help. I really desire to move tables, but I cannot because there is only one other table I could possibly go to and that table has only one friend who I'm pretty sure likes her more and is overcrowded. What should I do? Is this diva doing this for real or is this just her messing with me?

Why is there only one other table? How big is your high school?

sorry for the confusion, I meant one other table I could go to my high school is average sized and there are say 300 kids in my lunch.

Maybe you could try talking to one of your friends that sit at your lunch table, privately, and tell them you feel like this girl is singling you out. Maybe they'd be willing to talk to her and find out why she's doing it, hopefully put a stop to it.
I had such a hard time with cliques in high school, and have lost a lot of friends. All because one or two girls would decide I'm no longer "cool" enough for them, they start gossiping and turning all of their little group against me. I guess that just means they were never really friends to begin with.. They say if you have one true friend in your life your lucky.. I believe that.
I know its easier said than done, but just don't let her get to you! Obsessing over it will bring down your confidence and in turn make the situation worse, because she'll see that she has power over you. Hope that things get easier for you.

thanks, sorry it took so long for reply

Of all your friends who sit at that table, discern which one is the most approachable and understanding, and talk to them about why you don't like sitting with that person. If that fails, then stop sitting at that table completely, and if one of your friends asks you why, explain to them why you don't like sitting there. Hopefully, if they're really your friends, they'll try to mend the situation.

Good luck!