Anyone ever get back at their bullies?

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LupaLuna
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10 Feb 2013, 11:54 pm

Since there where two topics started about bullying. I like to know if some of you have ever done any "creative" things to get back or get even with your enemies at school?

I have quite a long list of things I did so I won't cover everything. One of the thing I did was take a squeeze bottle with a wand on the end of it and I would urinate in it( or fill it with battery acid depending on how severe the offense was.) and take the tip of the wand and insert it into the air vent of my enemy's locker and squirted it inside.

I don't know about you. But for me. In spite of all this getting even. I never was fully satisfy with doing it. Even though I could snicker under my breath going "he! he! I got you!". Because of the fact that my enemies never knew I was the one who did it. It never gave them an incentive to stop bullying me and it kept going on in a perpetual cycle.



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11 Feb 2013, 12:14 am

you're a bully, too, just a sneaky one.



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11 Feb 2013, 12:21 am

I've never really done anything creative like that but I've always been good at verbally lashing people and making them feel like idiots. Three incidents in particular stand out.

1. At my first job I was bullied and treated like crap by lots of people but there was this one chick in particular that really got to me. Always saying I'm ugly, blaming everything that went wrong in the building on ME, complained to our supervisor that I never smiled enough and she hated me, cussed me out loudly in front of everyone on numerous occasions, just overall being a female dog. Then one day she said something about how I was 18 and was a loser for not having my license yet (always struggled with driving) and I finally snapped and called her out on how she is 32 years old with four kids who's dads she doesn't know and the only job she can get is server at a restaurant and that I was on my way to college for my microbiology degree and would be out of there soon. She cried, lol.

2. At school, one of the "popular" chicks was rude from the very first day of school. Like everyone else she commented on how I was an ugly white girl, too pale, made fun of my lisp every time I spoke, would put me on the spot in front of the whole class. One day I forgot to put my workbook up so I just walked over and tossed it onto the teacher's desk, and she commented on how I was being "ignorant". I turned around and said "If you'd have been paying attention in this class instead of messing around you would know the proper definition of ignorance, which means lack of knowledge on a particular subject, example Darian (her name) is ignorant of what words in the English language mean. The only ignorant one I see in here is you sweetheart." She stood there shocked, then tried to physically come at me only to be escorted out by security. Heh.

3. Another time in school I was bored, looked around the classroom and I suppose I accidentally made eye contact with this preggo chick who was 15. Then the guy behind me struck up a conversation and while I wasn't looking she placed a note on me desk telling me to keep my ugly eyes to myself, that I'm jealous of her, and if I have a problem to say it to her face. I didn't even know her name! So I flipped it over and wrote on the back pinpointing her many grammatical errors and that I was sorry I accidentally glanced at her, but I understood as teenage hormones/pregnancy hormones and knowing you ruined your life don't mix. I put it up on the overhead and read it out loud to the class when the teacher stepped out and made this girl cry. I got ISS for a week, but hey, it was worth it.

4. Not really bullying I was late to class and forgot my id. I was on my way to my assistant principal which was the only place I could get a pass and a temporary id, and her office was on the other side of the school from the entrance. As I was walking there I was stopped by there two teachers who said they'd never seen me in the school and I looked like a trouble maker. My school had over 3,000 students in it. So I said to them "This school has thousands of students in them and you don't teach them all, so there is no way you could remember every one of their faces and I doubt you have physically seen every single one. I have never seen you two here, so I guess you must not teach here!!" They just said whatever and let me go.



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11 Feb 2013, 12:26 am

I never did anything for real, but I had a dream once where I pushed the face of one of my prime offenders into her birthday cake. I woke up feeling like a million bucks!



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11 Feb 2013, 12:47 am

cjthemadscientist wrote:
I've never really done anything creative like that but I've always been good at verbally lashing people and making them feel like idiots. Three incidents in particular stand out.

1. At my first job I was bullied and treated like crap by lots of people but there was this one chick in particular that really got to me. Always saying I'm ugly, blaming everything that went wrong in the building on ME, complained to our supervisor that I never smiled enough and she hated me, cussed me out loudly in front of everyone on numerous occasions, just overall being a female dog. Then one day she said something about how I was 18 and was a loser for not having my license yet (always struggled with driving) and I finally snapped and called her out on how she is 32 years old with four kids who's dads she doesn't know and the only job she can get is server at a restaurant and that I was on my way to college for my microbiology degree and would be out of there soon. She cried, lol.

2. At school, one of the "popular" chicks was rude from the very first day of school. Like everyone else she commented on how I was an ugly white girl, too pale, made fun of my lisp every time I spoke, would put me on the spot in front of the whole class. One day I forgot to put my workbook up so I just walked over and tossed it onto the teacher's desk, and she commented on how I was being "ignorant". I turned around and said "If you'd have been paying attention in this class instead of messing around you would know the proper definition of ignorance, which means lack of knowledge on a particular subject, example Darian (her name) is ignorant of what words in the English language mean. The only ignorant one I see in here is you sweetheart." She stood there shocked, then tried to physically come at me only to be escorted out by security. Heh.

3. Another time in school I was bored, looked around the classroom and I suppose I accidentally made eye contact with this preggo chick who was 15. Then the guy behind me struck up a conversation and while I wasn't looking she placed a note on me desk telling me to keep my ugly eyes to myself, that I'm jealous of her, and if I have a problem to say it to her face. I didn't even know her name! So I flipped it over and wrote on the back pinpointing her many grammatical errors and that I was sorry I accidentally glanced at her, but I understood as teenage hormones/pregnancy hormones and knowing you ruined your life don't mix. I put it up on the overhead and read it out loud to the class when the teacher stepped out and made this girl cry. I got ISS for a week, but hey, it was worth it.

4. Not really bullying I was late to class and forgot my id. I was on my way to my assistant principal which was the only place I could get a pass and a temporary id, and her office was on the other side of the school from the entrance. As I was walking there I was stopped by there two teachers who said they'd never seen me in the school and I looked like a trouble maker. My school had over 3,000 students in it. So I said to them "This school has thousands of students in them and you don't teach them all, so there is no way you could remember every one of their faces and I doubt you have physically seen every single one. I have never seen you two here, so I guess you must not teach here!!" They just said whatever and let me go.


Wow! I' come across fairly NT but even I wouldn't have had the guts to do what you did! Bullies (particularly serial bullies) have a form of sociopathy where the individual has (among other things) a total lack of empathy for their victims.

I went to a private school and teachers used to turn a blind eye to (and even encouraged) bullying of children who were not achieving high grades or who were not good at sport or who were not part of the elite. Those were the bad old days. Nowadays teachers can lose their jobs if they don't act on bullies. Our best weapon is the little black book that you can record the day date and time (like a journal) of the bully, their actions and who else witnessed the attack but who did not help or step in to help. Provide a copy to the school solicitor and see how quickly the little brats get suspended or expelled. You can use the same technique in the workplace as well.



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11 Feb 2013, 12:59 am

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11 Feb 2013, 1:17 am

Whenever someone bullied me, I was always literally fight or flight. I have no finesse, I guess.



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11 Feb 2013, 1:19 am

cyberdad wrote:

Wow! I' come across fairly NT but even I wouldn't have had the guts to do what you did! Bullies (particularly serial bullies) have a form of sociopathy where the individual has (among other things) a total lack of empathy for their victims.

I went to a private school and teachers used to turn a blind eye to (and even encouraged) bullying of children who were not achieving high grades or who were not good at sport or who were not part of the elite. Those were the bad old days. Nowadays teachers can lose their jobs if they don't act on bullies. Our best weapon is the little black book that you can record the day date and time (like a journal) of the bully, their actions and who else witnessed the attack but who did not help or step in to help. Provide a copy to the school solicitor and see how quickly the little brats get suspended or expelled. You can use the same technique in the workplace as well.


I would have rather had something like that then have to verbally stand up for myself. No matter how good I was at it and how much of an angry person I am I was always left embarassed and shakey after. But 9 times out of 10 it got them to shut up and leave me alone, and just before graduation I earned the nickname dragon lady which I think was meant to be an insult but I took it as a good thing, meaning I'm not a meek person. :)



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11 Feb 2013, 1:32 am

You know what they say "Success is the best revenge"



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11 Feb 2013, 1:34 am

cathylynn wrote:
you're a bully, too, just a sneaky one.


How does that make me a bully? I am only defending myself.



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11 Feb 2013, 1:41 am

cyberdad wrote:
cjthemadscientist wrote:
I've never really done anything creative like that but I've always been good at verbally lashing people and making them feel like idiots. Three incidents in particular stand out.

1. At my first job I was bullied and treated like crap by lots of people but there was this one chick in particular that really got to me. Always saying I'm ugly, blaming everything that went wrong in the building on ME, complained to our supervisor that I never smiled enough and she hated me, cussed me out loudly in front of everyone on numerous occasions, just overall being a female dog. Then one day she said something about how I was 18 and was a loser for not having my license yet (always struggled with driving) and I finally snapped and called her out on how she is 32 years old with four kids who's dads she doesn't know and the only job she can get is server at a restaurant and that I was on my way to college for my microbiology degree and would be out of there soon. She cried, lol.

2. At school, one of the "popular" chicks was rude from the very first day of school. Like everyone else she commented on how I was an ugly white girl, too pale, made fun of my lisp every time I spoke, would put me on the spot in front of the whole class. One day I forgot to put my workbook up so I just walked over and tossed it onto the teacher's desk, and she commented on how I was being "ignorant". I turned around and said "If you'd have been paying attention in this class instead of messing around you would know the proper definition of ignorance, which means lack of knowledge on a particular subject, example Darian (her name) is ignorant of what words in the English language mean. The only ignorant one I see in here is you sweetheart." She stood there shocked, then tried to physically come at me only to be escorted out by security. Heh.

3. Another time in school I was bored, looked around the classroom and I suppose I accidentally made eye contact with this preggo chick who was 15. Then the guy behind me struck up a conversation and while I wasn't looking she placed a note on me desk telling me to keep my ugly eyes to myself, that I'm jealous of her, and if I have a problem to say it to her face. I didn't even know her name! So I flipped it over and wrote on the back pinpointing her many grammatical errors and that I was sorry I accidentally glanced at her, but I understood as teenage hormones/pregnancy hormones and knowing you ruined your life don't mix. I put it up on the overhead and read it out loud to the class when the teacher stepped out and made this girl cry. I got ISS for a week, but hey, it was worth it.

4. Not really bullying I was late to class and forgot my id. I was on my way to my assistant principal which was the only place I could get a pass and a temporary id, and her office was on the other side of the school from the entrance. As I was walking there I was stopped by there two teachers who said they'd never seen me in the school and I looked like a trouble maker. My school had over 3,000 students in it. So I said to them "This school has thousands of students in them and you don't teach them all, so there is no way you could remember every one of their faces and I doubt you have physically seen every single one. I have never seen you two here, so I guess you must not teach here!!" They just said whatever and let me go.


Wow! I' come across fairly NT but even I wouldn't have had the guts to do what you did! Bullies (particularly serial bullies) have a form of sociopathy where the individual has (among other things) a total lack of empathy for their victims.

I went to a private school and teachers used to turn a blind eye to (and even encouraged) bullying of children who were not achieving high grades or who were not good at sport or who were not part of the elite. Those were the bad old days. Nowadays teachers can lose their jobs if they don't act on bullies. Our best weapon is the little black book that you can record the day date and time (like a journal) of the bully, their actions and who else witnessed the attack but who did not help or step in to help. Provide a copy to the school solicitor and see how quickly the little brats get suspended or expelled. You can use the same technique in the workplace as well.


I did A year in private school because I was failing public school and my mom was desperate to get me in a better school. For me, it was going from the frying pan and into the fire. bullying was 3 time worst there. I felt like I died and gone to hell.



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11 Feb 2013, 1:54 am

No, not my style - I learned a long time ago that carrying hate is just tiring.

In high school one of my best friends was bullied, he died in a car crash and my other friends took the opportunity to rub it in the faces of his bullies...that they made his short life miserable...it was just unpleasant to see, it didn't accomplish anything and I just felt guilty for letting my friends do this to the bullies. That situation put me off the idea of revenge against bullies even more.


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11 Feb 2013, 2:39 am

No.

I always wondered why they hated me and treated me badly, but when I was away from them I didn't spend my time focusing on them. If I had it would be like they were hurting me even more than they had by making me waste my time.

I hope that as many of them as possible have learned to treat other people better than they treated me. I don't want them to suffer.



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11 Feb 2013, 4:24 am

I used to be bullied at school by a group of people that were shouting racial slurs at me (I'm a white guy that was born in France so I find the irony of the situation quite amusing to be honest). And one of them thought it would be funny to actually hit me, he sure did, but I unleashed entire years of rage in his face afterwards with my fists. The teacher stood up for him.



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11 Feb 2013, 5:15 am

I once contemplated seeding someone's car seat with (radioactive) Americium from old fire alarms (my parents had fixed up an old house and replaced 5-6), in order to increase his risk of prostate cancer. But I decided my ability to handle radioactive material was limited and that I'd never know if it worked or not.



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11 Feb 2013, 5:19 am

i don't mind if the universe puts my bullies in their place.