Fnord wrote:
In a corporate setting, adaptability and interpersonal skills are requirements for any position.
Sure, granted, but to what degree and what frequency or consistency. And if they're listed in order of desirability, I'd say they're off for that particular posting.
Saying that someone should possess the same degree of adaptability & interpersonal skills for a sales manager job and a computer programmer is completely absurd. How many sales jobs do you think emphasize "analytical and detail-oriented" skills at the top of their desired competencies list.
In any case, I have been steadily and satisfactorily employed, due in large part to recounting stories, actual but embellished, on my being adaptable and showing tact - which the interviewers have typically answered favourably to w/o suspecting "something's up with him". If anything I remember those positive experiences better than most, b/c that sort of thing doesn't come as frequently or naturally to me. They don't need to know how consistent I was in displaying those attributes, and I'm sure not gonna say during an interview!! Let them find out "the big picture" of what I have to offer afterwards. (yes, ironic that NTs criticize
us for not focusing on the bigger picture.)