Do you think the way NTs socialize is beautiful?

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This might sound a little bit silly but I truely believe this: when I watch and listen to NT's socialize, I almost think it's beautiful -how they approach people they know or don't know to strike a conversation, the way their conversations flow from one topic to another, and how this is all done with such grace. Especially listening to older women talk. It's almost like listening to pretty jazz or classical music. Do you think that too?

Yes, yes, yes. For me, watching this is like a person with two left feet watching the Russian Ballet.

sometimes.

Especially in Charleston SC, a seat of southern charm.

It certainly makes me inferior to them. It makes me depressed just watching them while I stand on the sidelines not knowing what to say.

i never looked at it that way. it always just made me want to escape. i did find that listening to someone with a Tibetan accent speak was like listening to beautiful music.

Sad story. Many people have pointed out to me that every social interaction involves some sort of rhythm. Most of the time, I sense that my own rhythm is somewhat "off", but the more I try to fix it, the more mistakes I tend to make. Haha, I suppose that most NTs have a "good sense of rhythm" during social interactions. (Coincidentally or not, when music is concerned, my sense of rhythm is nearly non-existent.)

To me it's kind of strange. Not in a bad way, just something that is foreign to me.

Oh yes, I do admire it. I do admire it. I'm sometimes too afraid to join the conversation out of fear of derailing it.

For some NTs, yes. Not all NTs are socially graceful...in fact, I know many that are socially awkward...including my own parents.

For those who make friends easily and don't have any insecurity or weird parts of their brain/thinking they have to deal with, I absolutely envy them. My boyfriend's family are the perfect examples of who I'd like to be: they seem to just "know" things that I don't know, always know just know what to say at the right time, are very witty, always seem to be connected with others, and socialize with ease instead of hesitancy.

I want to be able to talk about things and make people feel comfortable so easily without wondering if I am being too weird or too unrelatable.

Sometimes,yeah.

Hahahahahahahahahahaha!

No.