We're 23 year old, identical twin girls. We've always been on the same page as far as the Asperger's goes. It's really hard to be twns with Asperger's because it makes us stand out even mroe as oddballs. Our Asperger's does help us with our special interest, which is writing about classic film. We help each other research and we take turns writing on whatever book we're doing. It must be hard to have a twin who isn't as much an Aspie as you are. We feel like we're the only ones who understand each other. If one of us was more "normal," we'd feel pretty isolated! On the other hand, it might be nice to have a normal sibling who could help us do actiivites that are less eccentric and help us not feel so anxious all the time. We sort of fuel each others' anxieties, sadly. It's nice to meet another twin!
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Well, I've wrestled with reality for 35 years, Doctor, and I'm happy to state I finally won out over it.
-James Stewart in "Harvey" (1950)