Nasty (NT) behaviour

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So I talked with a girl about a guy we both have met.

We were talking about a party we had all three been at - we all slept at the same place nearby after the party.

In the morning I had not been allowed to sleep very much (at all actually) because everyone who said they were going to sleep just kept on partying at the place nearby where people were supposed to be able to sleep.

Then I finally got to sleep, but soon after this guy wakes me up to say goodbye. Well fair enough.

So I told the girl (who knows the guy well) this and she said: "Well, he probably did want to say goodbye, but it's more likely he did it just to wake you up!"...."Why?" I replied..."Because it's funny. I'd done the same thing at least!"...


I JUST DON'T GET IT! WHY IS IT FUNNY TO MAKE ANOTHER HUMAN'S LIFE MORE MISERABLE?

Is this an NT thing? Or just a nasty-people thing?

Please don't blame the ~evil~ NT's for your problems. There are aspies and autists who can be as*holes too.

Some of my best friends are NT's and are pretty nice guys. Some are more like myself, while I can be an as*hole at times as well. Life ain't black and white like you think it is.

How do you know the guy was an "NT"? He may have a personality-disorder of some sort or something else for all you know.

It seems like the girl was projecting onto the guy's behavior. No one but him knows why he woke you up. Maybe he was being considerate and wanting to let you know he was leaving, so you didn't wake up and look for him needlessly or wonder where he went.

I don't know why the girl said that; it's a strange thing to say and to do. I haven't done that (wake someone up just for kicks) and I haven't heard of anyone else doing it.

Even among NTs there is a lot of difference and disparity - a spectrum if you will.

So there's no proof the guy was being "nasty" I don't think. Just that the girl had an odd interpretation of his behavior.

It's more because the girl had known him from back when they were both just kids. So it surely wasn't that much of a guess. She knows him and what he is like, all way through.

They are both extremely social people, no doubt about that.


I just cannot see why they think it's funny. Perhaps I just don't get this "friend-game" of competing and dragging each other down in (mean) ways.


But I don't get why kids mock and bully each other at school, either. Why not just minding their own business.

Being "more social" is much about agreeing with your "group" on enjoying someone else's misfortune. I won't do it. People sometimes attack me for this. I'll attack right back, it's not because I'm too stupid to not know how to do it. It's just a matter of finding weak points in the other person's character. I just don't want to. But I have to when people start attacking me.

I can't understand how someone would find that funny.

Perhaps she was just trying to stick up for her friend becouse in her mind that was the right thing to do and in her best intrest, I have seen NTs make some pretty strange(to me anyway) comments in someones defence all for their social best intrest. Usually they do a slightly better job at it though. Was this comment in line with her usual beheaviour? perhaps that is were the anwser lies.

My experence wakeing people up when it is needed is they tend to get angry, maybe these people like to view angry people or have an intrest in stupid practical jokes.

Bad joke on her part?

It is easier to make people laugh by attacking others than to create something genuinely humourous.