Hi,
I'm a chartered accountant living and working in the UK. I hated university; I felt excluded from my flatmates, colleagues etc, but didn't know why at the time- developed a bit of an alcohol problem and another serious bout of depression, so left after 6 months. I have always managed to be employed full-time, despite desperately wanting to run away several times!
I self-funded my studies while working in a few different offices, and got my chartership in 2009 (aged 25). It is one of the wisest things I decided to do. I now work in the head office of a very large multi-national retailer as a Strategy Analyst. My job is great, but not without its challenges.
This afternoon, for example, I have experienced a little conflict because one of my colleagues decided to hold a meeting behind me (at her desk). I hate having people too close to me, and despite wearing my noise cancelling headphones (my boss is pretty understanding, so I get to wear these every day), I could "feel" all the people behind me. I got up quickly and sat next to another of my colleagues to get away. She got angry at me and said "if you've got a problem, you should just tell me". I tried to explain, but I'd clearly misunderstood the situation, as she turned back round and ignored me. Sigh.
I suppose it still hurts when stuff like that happens, but I'm getting so good at shaking it off, knowing that I haven't done anything wrong- I'm doing my best to fit in in this place, and occasionally I slip up!
Anyway, I love my job; my boss pushes me hard to do things that used to be terrifying, like holding workshops with our board and meeting new people all the time. I'm getting braver all the time.