men who won't date fat women

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here what I find annoying when I hear men ( ok,some men)
say this: ''oh, women are so shallow and picky, they won't date short men, shame on them''
but yet these same guys would say ''oh, I won't date a fat woman''
''I won't date an ugly woman''

so why is it so bad, if a woman doesn't want to date a short guy, or any guys she has no interest in.
but yet, many times the same kind of guys who complain about these women,
are the same guys who also won't date fat woman, tall woman or any woman they have no interest in.

if a man has the right not to date a fat woman, then a woman should have the right not to date a short man.
and not be insulted for it.

if a man complains about women being picky, and yet he himself is just a picky, he's a hypocrite

A fat woman is less fertile than a fit woman. Futhermore, obesity is mostly a choice; height is not. If a 5'2" woman (who will probably give birth to short kids herself) turns down a 5'8" man, then she's a hypocrite. Likewise, if a 320 lb man turns down a cute, but slightly chubby girl because of her fat percentage, he's a hypocrite as well.

I agree, but I'm not short, I'm 5'11".

"Fat sex" is actually quite fun.........I'd prefer a little meat over a super skinny girl.

It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

However

A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.

With all due respect to some of the other posters, it looks as if I will take the contrarian position once again. I think one of the reasons why failed relationships are so painful is that, unlike an unsuccessful job interview, rejection by a lover or potential lover IS personal. Who we are attracted to is the most intensely personal and subjective thing I know of.

So, if a man doesn't isn't attracted to any kind of woman, that is his business, and he owes no explanation to anybody. The same goes for women. If a woman doesn't like short men, or wants only to date big bags of money, that is her business. We should date and marry whom we damn well please.

I've dated women whom most men would consider "fat". They've all been (mostly) nice and we had lots of fun. The fact that most were divorced and still harbored some anger toward their exes (and men in general) is what prevented any of those relationships from becoming permanent.

For me, it's the behavior more than the appearance that is the biggest turn-off.

A smile and a hug are just as sweet from a large woman as from a tiny one.

You can't blame people for having their preferences. You also can't control how tall you are, but you can watch what you eat and take care of yourself so that you aren't fat..

I am more interested in someone's character than anything else. Looks don't mean much to me unless he's a tiny midget or whatever. Even then I'd probably consider it if the person's really interesting. But to be honest: He'd probably be friendzoned... Anyway, the dating criteria differ a lot per gender so I guess hypocrisy is a natural part of it. It helps though if people are aware of that fact.

I don't understand the ''league'' thing either. I never think about it, for one. I don't see anyone as more or less valuable for reasons people put him in a certain league. Personality and intelligence matter to me. That's just one aspect. I just look at the person, regardless of what society thinks, and how well we get along.

(yes, I do have a certain amount of choice, so I can talk a bit about it....^_^)