Bizarre Love Triangle

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As much as I dig New Order, I'm actually referring to my love life here.

So, I currently have this deal:
The girl I love (who's with a dude) We're both bi. We've dated before.
The dude who likes me.

I can't decide. I have been almost in limerence with the former for a year. I know she is flitty and probably can never make up her mind. She has given me many reasons to believe she loves me. For instance, she came back. In tears. Either she's a good actor or she's into me.

The other guy I just met. My best friend was convinced I'd never get married or find anyone due to my Aspergers, so she gave me this guy's number. He doesn't do to me what my ex did, as far as how I feel. I turned down a date with him, since she's back. I don't know who to go with. It's crazy.

Date them both?

Confusion is never good for your emotions or your mind. I don't imagine either will be with you and I think you could maintain friendship with the guy and figure out whether the girl is really honest with you or not. But before that, you have to sort out your feelings and be honest with yourself about them... no matter how hard it is.

In my experience, this will resolve itself quite soon, people don't like to be single so if you don't land with one quickly, they'll get snatched up.
You apparently know your female friend, why did she 'leave'? Do you two have a bumpy history? Is she on the rebound?
If she is serious and loves you, then I'd say don't take chances that the unknown one will turn out. Grasp love where you can find it, don't gamble.
There's plenty of time to gamble when you've got no other choice. =)

speaking of bizare love triangle i lost my virginity to that song.have a great day

Tag Team 3 way

Monogamy is a man-made delusion anyway...

When in doubt, go with the one whose words and actions line up best.

(or neither)

3some sex = ftw

Here's the update:
The girl once again hurt my feeling and told me she REALLY wants her relationship with Douchey McPothead to work. And of course, having enough pain, I have deleted her texts and blocked her on Twitter.

The other guy is....an NT guy: all about sex. He told me he had no need of an actual relationship. But I only do relationships.

I'm so confused and in tears.