Shasta, I don't know if this is available where you are, but we were really helped by this (very expensive) program: http://www.sst-institute.net/
It's a similar idea. We were able to access it via our healthcare provider, but you can buy it outright if you have the means - the board game isn't as good (in fact, I'd skip it) but the computer game was really, really helpful. A positive side effect: it helped my husband and I see our son's specific disabilities very clearly for what they were. One step in us becoming better parents.