I've decided to ditch my Aspie girlfriend, for good.
I've been fighting with her since week 1 I moved to her place: cups, dishes, vases ... were of the few things broken in the process, and she always made me buy new ones despite she started the fights 80% of the times, if I start the fight she makes me pay for the losses because I started it, and if she starts the fight she makes me pay too because she says I was the one who caused her anger, so it's always my fault she says either way!! Not to mention the injuries she caused, she's a policewoman and a former grenadier in the army, so I was no match for her.
Not only that, but I 've caught her several times masterbating over Roid-buff gay porn on her laptop at night, just besides me, in bed while I was sleeping!! ! I mean hey I know it's her bed, her room, but couldn't she go to some other room to do it?? no respect at all! and no consideration for my feelings .
And she always called me names, I don't even recall the last time she called me with my name: Shrimp, donkey, imbecile, you son of b*** are some of the most used names.
And she kept telling me of Mustafa's enormous willie, her colleague policeman, not sure how she knows the size but she claimed that toilets/showers are shared in their HQ.
And oh, her cooking stinks, no salt, no spices, and she puts like the half qty of water needed for rice, she likes the rice crashing under teeth, and I was always the one who did the chores!
Then one day, the barista (a drop out psychology college student) of our local cafe had pointed out that my partner has Asperger's - ever since it all makes sense now!! it wasn't my fault at all! It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.
So I've finally built up the courage yesterday to break up with her!! Yeah!
but I need some support, especially from you aspie girls :'(
PS: Ok, I am feeling so gay now, time to go back blowing up some heads in Fallout 3.