steverogers wrote:
I have found this happens with a lot of my friends, and also myself as I often fall so in love with a girl that I see her as being beyond reproach.
This means that when she makes a mistake I get very disappointed and upset.
Does anyone else have the same problem?
Do any of you feel that as 'perfect' women (or men) don't exist that you fall for fictional characters? I know I have!
Or have any of you out there tried to mold someone into their perfect partner (I used to to this in the past) like some kind of Dr Higgins?
Just wondering....
Goodbye till next time
Aspies try and make their potential partners perfect because there's something missing from almost every girl an aspie meets.
Because their minds arent right we try and make every other detail about them perfect as a way of compensating.
The truth is, you just need the right kind of person. Aspie girls, ones that aren't hopelessly consumed by their own selfishness as i know a lot of aspie girls are, are your best bet.
Its the mind, its the way they see the world, thats whats important. With the right mind you will look at a girl twice your weight and think beautiful.