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Monolithe
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03 Nov 2013, 8:49 am

Personality wise, emotionally, physically etc,?


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Personality traits / emotional traits:

- Kind, caring and empathetic
- Honest and heartfelt
- Friendly
- Dedicated, strong-willed and loyal
- Intelligent and wise
- Mature
- Masculine energy
- Down to earth
- Good sense of humor
- Positive
- Playful
- Adventurous

Physically:

- Not overly handsome
- Sophisticated / but simple clothing style
- Hygienically maintained
- Tall, yet not too tall
- Slim (Isn't lazy)
- Big muscles is a no no
- Slightly geeky
- Strong, at least to some extent
- Some facial hair
- Hair on his head, aka none shaven

James D'arcy is a good example of what my dream guy would look like physically:

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- We'd have some common interests
- He'd be minimum 6 years older than me
- He'd take part in physical activities with me (not that you pervert!)
- He'd challenge me every now and then (get me to do things I usually would not have dared to do)


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03 Nov 2013, 11:41 am

I sometimes think that my standards are a bit high and too idealistic, but here's what my ideal guy would be like in a perfect world (in no particular order):

Compassionate
Good listener
Intelligent
Loyal
Ambitious/goal-oriented
Considerate of other people
Challenges me to come out of comfort zone
Appreciates my quirks and point of view
Respects my autonomy
Comfortable with silence
Good sense of humor
Athletic
Adventurous
Enjoys travel
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03 Nov 2013, 11:45 am

Probably someone who likes sports, anime/manga, 1980s pop culture.... and....
Leggy, meek, enthusiastic like I am, and wanting to understand me further.


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03 Nov 2013, 12:10 pm

My dream girl is real...and she's my best friend :D

She's into anime, video games and lots of the same shows, movies & music. She's gorgeous. She cosplays. She cares about me, though she might never return my feelings. Her few flaws don't faze me one bit, whereas anyone else would get on my nerves or completely turn me off ( she smokes once in a great while...and tends to get very drunk ). We're always there for each other.


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03 Nov 2013, 1:09 pm

I dare to describe the perfect woman
Her pureness, impossible to contain
And yet, her heart, therein lies perfection
to an extent man could never attain

There is nothing more pure than her true soul
Except to God she never bows her head
Without woman no man's heart can be whole
without her one might just as well be dead

She seeks neither to lead nor to be led
She seeks only to do what must be done
Her calming presence suppresses all dread
the love she gives can be second to none

She is well learned, her manner pedantic
although her heart is immeasurably kind
she's independent and she's romantic
her most appealing feature is her mind

Her smile's lovely and understated
She has amazing wit and a sharp tongue
Thirst for knowledge never satiated
Always wise in years, and in manner young

She has a laugh that tintinnabulates
She's smart and strong and independent too
her heavenly appearance radiates
and every word that leaves her lips is true

There is no treasure greater than her love
in lifelong union, true love is exchanged
a treasure gifted to you from above
he who claims to not want love is deranged



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03 Nov 2013, 1:57 pm

Asperger96 wrote:
I dare to describe the perfect woman
Her pureness, impossible to contain
And yet, her heart, therein lies perfection
to an extent man could never attain

There is nothing more pure than her true soul
Except to God she never bows her head
Without woman no man's heart can be whole
without her one might just as well be dead

She seeks neither to lead nor to be led
She seeks only to do what must be done
Her calming presence suppresses all dread
the love she gives can be second to none

She is well learned, her manner pedantic
although her heart is immeasurably kind
she's independent and she's romantic
her most appealing feature is her mind

Her smile's lovely and understated
She has amazing wit and a sharp tongue
Thirst for knowledge never satiated
Always wise in years, and in manner young

She has a laugh that tintinnabulates
She's smart and strong and independent too
her heavenly appearance radiates
and every word that leaves her lips is true

There is no treasure greater than her love
in lifelong union, true love is exchanged
a treasure gifted to you from above
he who claims to not want love is deranged


Beautifully written may i say :flower:


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03 Nov 2013, 2:21 pm

Monolithe wrote:
Asperger96 wrote:
I dare to describe the perfect woman
Her pureness, impossible to contain
And yet, her heart, therein lies perfection
to an extent man could never attain

There is nothing more pure than her true soul
Except to God she never bows her head
Without woman no man's heart can be whole
without her one might just as well be dead

She seeks neither to lead nor to be led
She seeks only to do what must be done
Her calming presence suppresses all dread
the love she gives can be second to none

She is well learned, her manner pedantic
although her heart is immeasurably kind
she's independent and she's romantic
her most appealing feature is her mind

Her smile's lovely and understated
She has amazing wit and a sharp tongue
Thirst for knowledge never satiated
Always wise in years, and in manner young

She has a laugh that tintinnabulates
She's smart and strong and independent too
her heavenly appearance radiates
and every word that leaves her lips is true

There is no treasure greater than her love
in lifelong union, true love is exchanged
a treasure gifted to you from above
he who claims to not want love is deranged


Beautifully written may i say :flower:


Then, for your viewing pleasure, the deleted scene/stanza:

She never dominates but wont submit
Two souls; one heart; forever coexist
To her, my heart, I eternally commit
Without her beacon of light; there is mist



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03 Nov 2013, 7:53 pm

Image x 3 heads

Type: three headed red duck into Google and see what comes up... :D



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03 Nov 2013, 7:54 pm

I'm not sure but when I have a good idea of what my dream woman is, I'll buy one of those budget robots off of octobertiger and program it in :)



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03 Nov 2013, 7:58 pm

I wouldn't want to cause you trauma by objectifying women. No sale.

Sorry, OP. Back to reality.



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03 Nov 2013, 9:45 pm

OK, here we go...

Character Traits

Loves Jesus with all her heart
Stands for what she believes (no PC crap)
Confident yet unafraid to be vulnerable
Intelligent, not arrogant
Selfless more than selfish
Good vocabulary (so I don't have to explain every phrase)
More interdependent than independent
Secure in her femininity (no man-haters)
Understanding in her heart, not just her head
Forgiving and patient

Physical Traits

Fairly tall (I'm 5'11")
Soulful eyes, with a "deep connection" quality (can't explain it)
Semi-long hair (mid-back at most)
Slender (not skinny or fat)
Great curves in all the right places, but not exaggerated

Basically, I want a Godly woman who does her best to trust Jesus, treats others with respect (especially me), expects the same in return, and isn't afraid to stand for absolute truth. In essence, I'm looking for the total opposite of all these liberal-nut, semi-psychotic, man-condemning ultra-feminists out there. I want a woman of integrity and personal responsibility, who recognizes the effect her body will have on me, and takes appropriate steps to help me control myself until marriage.


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03 Nov 2013, 10:23 pm

Asperger96 wrote:
Monolithe wrote:
Asperger96 wrote:
I dare to describe the perfect woman
Her pureness, impossible to contain
And yet, her heart, therein lies perfection
to an extent man could never attain

There is nothing more pure than her true soul
Except to God she never bows her head
Without woman no man's heart can be whole
without her one might just as well be dead

She seeks neither to lead nor to be led
She seeks only to do what must be done
Her calming presence suppresses all dread
the love she gives can be second to none

She is well learned, her manner pedantic
although her heart is immeasurably kind
she's independent and she's romantic
her most appealing feature is her mind

Her smile's lovely and understated
She has amazing wit and a sharp tongue
Thirst for knowledge never satiated
Always wise in years, and in manner young

She has a laugh that tintinnabulates
She's smart and strong and independent too
her heavenly appearance radiates
and every word that leaves her lips is true

There is no treasure greater than her love
in lifelong union, true love is exchanged
a treasure gifted to you from above
he who claims to not want love is deranged


Beautifully written may i say :flower:


Then, for your viewing pleasure, the deleted scene/stanza:

She never dominates but wont submit
Two souls; one heart; forever coexist
To her, my heart, I eternally commit
Without her beacon of light; there is mist


That whole poem describes my best friend...and why I love her more than life itself...


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04 Nov 2013, 8:30 am

My ideal woman (without being inappropriate)

Shes attractive
Feminine Body
Nice
Fun to be around
Plays music
Short to low-average height. (4 ft 11 to 5 ft 3)
Caring
Plays Runescape or Pokemon. (only a dream girl)



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04 Nov 2013, 8:54 am

Topic 131381382.



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04 Nov 2013, 9:02 am

a nice backside



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04 Nov 2013, 3:34 pm

My perfect man would be:
Intelligent
Compassionate
Patient
Open minded
Wants kids
Loves cats
Have a sense of humor
Be able to take charge when I flake out but step back when needed to.
Have at least a few of the same interests whether its ancient Roman culture or the theory of panspermia.
Like to play board games

He will NOT:
Ignore me when I need attention.
Yell and frighten me when stressed out
Throw things when angry
Guilt trip me when I have done nothing wrong

Physically I like men who:
Are slim
Have a full head of hair, especially if its long and/or dark.
Have no tattoos or piercings, I can tolerate one or two, just prefer none.
Wear glasses.
Dress decent but don't spend a fortune on clothing