lonely people,what type of people,you try dating

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so,lonely people(no partners of any kind*,including ONS)
what the look level of people,you try dating.Are people lonely
because they go out their ''league''in the look department.
will find out.

(*in the last 5 years,including ONS)

Last edited by billiscool on 28 Dec 2013, 2:11 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Can I vote? I'm not really lonely at the moment but I just got out of a relationship.

Im going add one more thing.

What kind of people do you "try dating"? That would imply that I actually go anywhere to meet other human beings.

if you did,would you go after good looking,average,or ugly folks?or a mixture of people.

I've dated just about every type of person under the sun so far...maybe it's time I start looking in the shade

Almost entirely ONS w/ the exception of an ongoing crush on someone I'd like to date.. and all/almost all "attractive," as why would I have a ONS or try to date someone I wasn't attracted to?? Attractive is subjective, it's going to be different for each of us.. but why would anyone try to get with someone they weren't attracted to??

What if everyone is out of your league?

Then you should congratulate yourself on being called up to the big leagues from the minors & make the best go if it you can.

Haha love this!

I gravitate towards average guys.

I seriously wonder about some people here and their warped opinion of how attractive they are. I'm not surprised if people are getting rejected by "hotties".

I try to date ugly girls. I don't know why. I think it is because I am realistic about my chances of obtaining a woman who is highly desirable. Then again, maybe I have an unrealistically negative view of my attractiveness.

Probably this. But if you do in fact have an unrealistically negative view of your attractiveness, that negativity in and of itself is unattractive.. so, you'd have to turf it in order to really boost your attractiveness.

I haven't ever had a date, but the guys I liked tended to be average to a bit above average in looks

It depends on the situation for me.

If a woman is interested in me, then I will go after her, it doesn't matter what she looks like in the attraction scale. If a woman is attracted to me, I want to find out more about her so I will spend more time with her, find out why she finds me attractive, maybe see if I wind up finding her attractive too and how we'd do dating.

Second, if no woman is attracted to me and I'm on the look out myself, I tend to go after women who I deem to be about the same in attraction level as me or a little bit less attractive.

I shy away from women who I think to be extremely attractive (without knowing who they are), the ones that are just attractive physically. Now if that woman is attracted to me, I'll still do the above aforementioned, but if it's just me trying to choose who to pursue, then it will not be the attractive one.

I don't feel good about it because chances are there are reasons why I find her to be attractive besides just her looks. Such as, she is easy to have a conversation with, has the same interests, etc etc.
But I just can't get over the "she's-too-attractive-for-me" thing. I hope someday I will, but as of right now, my 22 year old self cannot do it.

I also tend to shy away from attractive women because I'm convinced once I get in a relationship with them, they'll cheat on me at some point.
I mean I feel that way with all women, but the paranoia is more so with attractive ones.

It probably has something to do with the fact that I've been cheated on in all of my relationships except two.

I don't get what you mean?