fealing the need to be with someone

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Um, I always feel the need to have someone I can love, be with, and do everything I can to make them happy. Its not jest lonlyness it fealying the need to be there for someone. Im also told not to worry about that cuz I'm jest 17 and to young to be worring about relationship. Knowing its normal for people my age to not be in a relationships doesn't help the way I feel.

I'm too scared to get into a relationship. I don't know why, though. I'm older and it's like I don't trust people like I used to. Maybe some therapy could help with that. I have AvPD.

I'm 20. The only thing I'm concerned about is being independent. Job, car, license, and a crappy hunting shack to call my own. Or if I'm lucky an apartment.

Your seventeen, make sure you know who you are before you get into girls. A job doesn't hurt either.

17 is not too young. It's normal to feel the way that you do.

Don't fret, you aren't the only one who feels like this at this age. I am sixteen and feel pretty much the same way you do about relationships (feeling that you need to be there for someone). There is one thing to bear in mind though when you do find someone you like. Become good friends first for as long as possible.

SRT

Dont worry the right girl will come soon enough

You're not alone. I'm 30 and have yet to find a meaningful relationship with someone.

I'm in the same boat as you OP. 18 and scared as hell about dating. Have had a few relationships in the past but they ended and I wound up feeling depressed as I thought it was my fault.

I'm 21 and I never had a boyfriend, never kissed anyone. My biggest fear is that I'll never share my life with someone, never experience all the fun and happiness that love gives. But then again, I need my own hours of solitude. Do not worry, you are not alone. You are still young, but why judge? Even teenagers your age find someone especial.

I'd tell you that it gets better, but to believe me would require you not to read anything else on this forum.

I feel this all the time, and I wish I could say the feeling subsides, but it doesn't. All you can do is keep trying, as I am. Strive for some semblance of control over your situation Put yourself out there, and if the other person doesn't want what you have to offer, to hell with them.