Verdandi wrote:
I think that sometimes people don't understand what a "slur" actually is. They reduce it down to individual things that individual people say to other individual people. The point of words like "sperg" and "sperglord" and "sped" is that they're used in a systematic, global fashion to define ways in which people are inferior and less worthy of humanity. They foster an environment in which these traits (being autistic in this case) is denigrated.
So it's not really important if an individual is offended or not, because it's not about offending individual people. It's about painting an entire group of people (that is, us) as inferior and mockable.
I agree. "Sperg" and "sperglord" definitely imply to me that the insulter considers the insultee to be a walking collection of all the worst stereotypes of autism: bad hygiene, awkward mannerisms, complete dependence on others, using their diagnosis as an excuse etc.
I've seen people use it in a self-deprecative manner sometimes, but mostly it's used to attack people whether they have autism or not. It seems to especially be used in particular fandom communities, especially the video game community, as an insult for anyone the person saying it doesn't like, which is just wrong as that suggests a view of autism as an undesirable thing.