How do you choose your special interest?
Are there any factors which affects what your special interest is?
E.g. does age/ability/personality have any influence? Or maybe if your are depressed/happy?
I'm sorry for being vague. I suppose I'm wondering how much choice people have over choosing their special interests or if is something much deeper than that which influences their choice and they are just sort of drawn to it.
Thanks
I guess the answer would be that it's the same reason any person is interested in anything, which is just the person that they are. The things people are interested in are so intertwined with a persons identity I don't think you can really weed out the reasons and causes in a general sense. I'm assuming, though, that 'special interests' are just normal interests expressed in an ASD way. Personal experience, my special interests always feel like I've suddenly stumbled upon some hidden, extremely detailed secret world. I don't think I've ever sought something out, it's always been some random game or a scene from a TV show. I don't think they've really followed any rules, a few of them actually surprised me (e.g. suddenly I like nothing but screamo, Law and Order, etc.), and then it's my whole life.
Do you guys think special interests are more tolerated with females or males? At what age was your first special interest? Did you ever make your special interests profitable?
My special interests are like a tree. Branches often grow, expand, branch off or die.
My original special interest is music.
Then my special interest became playing music.
That turned into playing piano.
Playing piano turned into being obsessed with Yamaha keyboards.
I got a bit interested in electronics.
That turned into being interested in computers and the internet.
That interest turned into web design.
When I got bored of web design I started getting interested in discovering new music, specifically indie rock.
That interest turned into Scandinavian indie rock.
That turned into Icelandic music.
That interest turned into Icelandic culture.
That interest turned into Icelandic language. While I was learning Icelandic I often listened to traditional Finnish music to take a break from Icelandic.
That interest turned into Nordic languages.
That turned into languages in general.
I got bored of languages, so I listened to more Finnish music.
I started to get obsessed with Finnish folk music.
I started to get interested in traditional Finnish accordion music.
Then I got interested in playing accordion and music in general.
I have other "interest trees" and isolated special interests, but the "music tree" is the biggest. A lot of times my interests are just old interests returning. I will probably get interested in web design again.
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 82 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 124 of 200
You are very likely neurotypical
My original special interest is music.
Then my special interest became playing music.
That turned into playing piano.
Playing piano turned into being obsessed with Yamaha keyboards.
I got a bit interested in electronics.
Did you document your interests or do remember them that well? Surprises me because mine moved so fast it was just a blur.
My original special interest is music.
Then my special interest became playing music.
That turned into playing piano.
Playing piano turned into being obsessed with Yamaha keyboards.
I got a bit interested in electronics.
Did you document your interests or do remember them that well? Surprises me because mine moved so fast it was just a blur.
I have a good long term memory. I can remember when my grandmother visited me when I was one and the day my mom told me she was pregnant when I was two. I remember that it was a sunny day and she was sitting down in living room on something that looked like a massage table.
Since a lot of my special interests are triggered by previous interests my special interests tend to bring back a lot of memories as well. When I was about eight I was obsessed with looking at a picture of an accordion in a book. Since I didn't have any more accordion-related material that interest died fast.
The accordion interest came back when I was listening to Finnish folk music. I probably wouldn't have noticed the accordion if my previous special interest didn't exist.
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 82 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 124 of 200
You are very likely neurotypical
This.
Special interests are a bit like falling in love. You don't choose it, it happens to you.
Yep same here. I always wonder when coming out of one, what the next one will end up being.
Guess right now it's discussion forums, where I've made nearly 10,000 posts on three of them in
the 6 months since I first started doing this.
My original special interest is music.
Then my special interest became playing music.
That turned into playing piano.
Playing piano turned into being obsessed with Yamaha keyboards.
I got a bit interested in electronics.
That turned into being interested in computers and the internet.
That interest turned into web design.
When I got bored of web design I started getting interested in discovering new music, specifically indie rock.
That interest turned into Scandinavian indie rock.
That turned into Icelandic music.
That interest turned into Icelandic culture.
That interest turned into Icelandic language. While I was learning Icelandic I often listened to traditional Finnish music to take a break from Icelandic.
That interest turned into Nordic languages.
That turned into languages in general.
I got bored of languages, so I listened to more Finnish music.
I started to get obsessed with Finnish folk music.
I started to get interested in traditional Finnish accordion music.
Then I got interested in playing accordion and music in general.
I have other "interest trees" and isolated special interests, but the "music tree" is the biggest. A lot of times my interests are just old interests returning. I will probably get interested in web design again.
These two are unrelated, and your metaphor confused me

Also, HP reference to be made:
"A wand chooses you, Harry Potter" - Olivander.
This.
Special interests are a bit like falling in love. You don't choose it, it happens to you.
Yep same here. I always wonder when coming out of one, what the next one will end up being.
Guess right now it's discussion forums, where I've made nearly 10,000 posts on three of them in
the 6 months since I first started doing this.
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand it changed again (profile pic)

I couldn't identify my current special interest but when you said discussion forums I realised that it was mine too as I have made over 80 posts in 3 days.
*(I am enjoying connecting with people like me)

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I think it is from Ender's game, am I correct?
I think it should be possible to partly select special interests, but as others have claimed, they sometimes tend to choose you.
IT/electronics thread of interests:
I started out with math in high-school
When I got my first computer (a ZX80), I become interested in computers and learned Z80 assembly
The interest in computers led to getting interested in electronics, so I started building small devices
The interest in electronics made me enroll in the MSc in electronics (which I completed easily as most of it was interesting to me)
At my first work I got fed-up with Microsoft DOS (trying to multitask), so I started my OS project
Since I wanted to work closer to hardware, I switched work to a position where I would eventually be able to work on terminals
On my new work I started using my OS as a debug tool as the platform we used lacked decent debugging
A few years ago we started to ship PC-platform terminals based on my OS (which eventually made this project commercial)
Neurodiversity thread of interests:
It was my children (and social authorities) that led me to study autism in 2000
In 2001 I wrote down the Neanderthal theory in response to a total failure of psychiatry to explain mine and my childrens problems and talents
In 2002-2003 I started to collect data to try to prove some key predictions in the Neanderthal theory
In 2004 I constructed the first Aspie Quiz with a friend. The idea was to create an independent test for autistic traits
In 2006 I discovered the main factors, which led to the "independent" neurodiversity definition
Somewhere around 2008 I wrote the first manuscript about Aspie Quiz. It wasn't until august 2013 that I finally got it accepted after multiple failures
Then there are multiple sub-threads, like building renewable energy systems (solar and wind based), which I realized a few years ago, and the interest in the natural social and mating behavior of neurodiversity which I still work on.
Basically this, although my solutions are purely theoretical since the problems that I get hooked on are too big for me to ever be in a position to actually fix.
IT/electronics thread of interests:
I started out with math in high-school
When I got my first computer (a ZX80), I become interested in computers and learned Z80 assembly
The interest in computers led to getting interested in electronics, so I started building small devices
The interest in electronics made me enroll in the MSc in electronics (which I completed easily as most of it was interesting to me)
At my first work I got fed-up with Microsoft DOS (trying to multitask), so I started my OS project
Since I wanted to work closer to hardware, I switched work to a position where I would eventually be able to work on terminals
On my new work I started using my OS as a debug tool as the platform we used lacked decent debugging
A few years ago we started to ship PC-platform terminals based on my OS (which eventually made this project commercial)
Neurodiversity thread of interests:
It was my children (and social authorities) that led me to study autism in 2000
In 2001 I wrote down the Neanderthal theory in response to a total failure of psychiatry to explain mine and my childrens problems and talents
In 2002-2003 I started to collect data to try to prove some key predictions in the Neanderthal theory
In 2004 I constructed the first Aspie Quiz with a friend. The idea was to create an independent test for autistic traits
In 2006 I discovered the main factors, which led to the "independent" neurodiversity definition
Somewhere around 2008 I wrote the first manuscript about Aspie Quiz. It wasn't until august 2013 that I finally got it accepted after multiple failures
Then there are multiple sub-threads, like building renewable energy systems (solar and wind based), which I realized a few years ago, and the interest in the natural social and mating behavior of neurodiversity which I still work on.
(I think) I forgot to thank you rdos!
Thank you very much for creating the aspie quiz.
Thank you very much for creating the aspie quiz.
No big deal. The primary motivation was to learn about myself and my children, and then this grew into one of my strongest special interests. The bad thing about it is that this was somewhat forced upon me, and I did it as much as revenge against those that didn't understand anything back then as of curiosity. OTOH, I'm currently driven mostly by curiosity as I think I've won the battle over the social authorities at this point, even if they won't admit it (my foster care placed youngest son got diagnosed as ASD + ADHD a while back despite the main motivation for the "care" was to avoid this).
I forgot another thread:
In 1990 I started to learn traditional dancing (I did that because an ex thought I was unable to, and she had learned it)
In 1992 I met my wife at a dance
I've been dancing ever since. This interest led me to learn how to interpret NTs, and also to avoid some of my blocks in relation to girls
I also was very active on autism forums 5-10 years ago and wrote some 10,000 posts on a swedish forum. Today I'm not that active.
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