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cayla
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26 Mar 2014, 4:58 am

When you really love someone, age, distance, height and weight are just numbers?Sometimes, all we need is a hand to hold and a heart that understands.I promise you, I'm always there, when your heart is filled with sorrow and despair.
One, give me a memorable proposal, do not need it how costly, as long as it made me think, feel that their growth is complete and sweet. Marry me, to be my husband, I don't need you how tall and handsome, as long as you love me, one can tolerate my little capricious, broad minded little squeamish.

Two, you want to be responsible for me, have a healthy body, because it bears the responsibility of the family, please do not use alcohol, nicotine, excessive fatigue, sleep overdraft to hurt it.

Three, if we are poor, I as long as you have a progressive heart, I would try my meager strength to improve our lives, with the face of poverty, and your failure, frustration, disease...... But, please, must, must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, never give up the love of life and the pursuit of.

Four, I don't need you to make a lot of money, in fact, very few people actually need, I hope you can open all unnecessary entertainment, accompany me to do a little housework, help the child learn to change diapers, to tell him the big bad wolf, and we see a cartoon movie...... When the children grow up, you will see that these trivial how warm and precious.
six,If you are on the outside by gas or unhappy, please don't a person smoking and drinking. I'm your wife, I want to be with you together, please complain to me, let me hold you. You happy and please share with me, let me cheer and celebrate.
Seven, we will have their own circle of friends, friends of the role is sometimes love can not be replaced. I hope we can respect each other's friends, trust each other, when my friends need comfort, please take care of the child, let me go to them as a heart. Your friends need you, can not go home at night, please call me safe, home lights will not be destroyed, the door is not locked
Eight, I know I must not the most beautiful and the most intelligent woman, I have many shortcomings, but I will try to upgrade and improve ourselves, let oneself healthy, confident, beautiful, virtuous, let your friends about me, say your wife is very good.
Nine, if I am tired, have to do a little woman at home, please give me a break, I cannot make economic contribution to the family, but I assure you, when you get home, you will see is a gentle smile, a good bubble tea, clean rooms and clean smelly socks. Although I don't know of bean sprouts and green vegetables, but I'll do Food "Encyclopedia", and train them to become the world's greatest cook.
Ten, married life is dull. I hope we can be optimistic, calm, the heart of thanksgiving to spend even enjoy this dull, find joy in the fuel and do not finish the housework. I assure you, I absolutely loyal to you, loyal to our marriage and family. If one day, you are tired, you meet more beautiful woman, I will be jealous, angry, sad and noisy, it is because I love you.
Eleven, at the age of 70, when the US, I hope we still each other candles, like you did, holding my hands no longer gentle, affectionate to me and said: "thank God, give me one of the world's most beautiful and the most lovely, but no woman of the tooth!" And I also like the general naughty, hold your wrinkled face: "thank God, let me pick up a the most handsome, smart, just bent back old man!"
Twelve I love you :D



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26 Mar 2014, 6:32 am

This post is, um, hard to make an actual reply to, but I'll you leave with this small message:

A cynical person might say that your idealist thinking is naive and that these things will only exist in your dreams, but keep in mind that inside every cynical person there is a disappointed idealist.



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26 Mar 2014, 7:55 am

All idealists are disappointed, because they are unreasonable, demanding and intolerant.

There is no perfect world, therefore expecting to get everything just the way you want it is asking for disappointment.



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26 Mar 2014, 8:23 am

An idealist (like me, at least) can only be disappointed if they are impatient or inflexible. Perfection, especially as a goal to be achieaved, is a human concept and not an absolute value, and thus is an idea that I believe can change with time. Even so, I believe Cayla's goal IS actually achievable as it is now. The sentiment is very sweet, and I wish you, cayla, Willard, and TheBraveSirRobin, hapiness and success in your pursuit of each of your perfect worlds.

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-... Four, I don't need you to make a lot of money, in fact, very few people actually need, I hope you can open all unnecessary entertainment, accompany me to do a little housework, help the child learn to change diapers, to tell him the big bad wolf, and we see a cartoon movie...... When the children grow up, you will see that these trivial how warm and precious.
six,If you are on the outside by gas or unhappy, please don't a person smoking and drinking. I'm your wife, I want to be with you together, please complain to me, let me hold you. You happy and please share with me, let me cheer and celebrate. ...-

Also, you skipped five. :I



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26 Mar 2014, 5:08 pm

You missed something.

When you're with the right person it's FUN, you have a great time until you get to the point where just snuggling up in front of the TV to watch a movie is enough. So, you need to add:

Make me happy.


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26 Mar 2014, 6:39 pm

Eccles_the_Mighty wrote:
You missed something.

When you're with the right person it's FUN, you have a great time until you get to the point where just snuggling up in front of the TV to watch a movie is enough. So, you need to add:

Make me happy.


Well said. A relationship is a true partnership.

Ironic thing about the OP's username? My ex-girlfriend's name is Cayla, and I might have at one point told her about the site.



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26 Mar 2014, 8:31 pm

Northeastern292 wrote:
Eccles_the_Mighty wrote:
You missed something.

When you're with the right person it's FUN, you have a great time until you get to the point where just snuggling up in front of the TV to watch a movie is enough. So, you need to add:

Make me happy.


Well said. A relationship is a true partnership.

Ironic thing about the OP's username? My ex-girlfriend's name is Cayla, and I might have at one point told her about the site.


s**t son you done f****d it up!


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26 Mar 2014, 8:39 pm

buffinator wrote:
Northeastern292 wrote:
Eccles_the_Mighty wrote:
You missed something.

When you're with the right person it's FUN, you have a great time until you get to the point where just snuggling up in front of the TV to watch a movie is enough. So, you need to add:

Make me happy.


Well said. A relationship is a true partnership.

Ironic thing about the OP's username? My ex-girlfriend's name is Cayla, and I might have at one point told her about the site.


sh** son you done f**** it up!


You're welcome! :twisted:



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26 Mar 2014, 9:25 pm

Willard wrote:
All idealists are disappointed, because they are unreasonable, demanding and intolerant.

There is no perfect world, therefore expecting to get everything just the way you want it is asking for disappointment.


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